im testing my gf right now im saying im going to a dance with a nother girl but really im not i have work from the dance hours its killing me cause i asked her in her words what words you would you pick to express her love 4 me and she drew a blank i would take a bullet 4 her and i dont know if she loves me
2007-03-10 04:03:47 · 9 answers · asked by Marcus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you ask her how she feels about you "before" or "after" you told her you had a date with someone else? Don't confuse yourself and then think she is the one confused. Give her time to answer before you jump to conclusions. You may be making her question the way "you" feel about her. Sounds to me like you might need to slow down and give the girl some breathing room. Telling her you have a date with someone else is a sure way to turn her away from you no matter what her true feelings for you are. I know I wouldn't wait to see how the date came out! I'd be out the door.
2007-03-10 10:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by KieKie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did u tell her u would take a bullet 4 her? That may have helped her open up. Perhaps she has been hurt before. Either way, don't lie to her to test her: BIG mistake. Cut the crap, and be completely honest with her. Let her know how you feel - that's how love is at first - it is scary when you don't know how your partner feels. Give her time, but please be honest with her.
2007-03-10 04:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one says you have to get married but is societys way of getting two people to prove their commitment to each other, as for dating you would have to date someone to get to know them your not going to love someone unconditionally until you know them inside out that just comes with time.There is nothing wrong with declaring love to someone but you don't have to get married to do that, marriage is for everyone else's benefit and not the two people concerned at the end of the day it's just a piece of paper which means nothing if the couple aren't truly committed to each other it's just as easy to get divorced as it is to get married so what's the point?
2016-03-28 23:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are testing her then you probably should not be associated with her. Testing indicates your lack of sensitivity. Think about all the things she does for you. Does she do these things for her own sake or for you. If not then find someone else. Forget the testing.
2007-03-10 04:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your are playing games with her emotions. Be honest with each other and you will always know how she feels about you.
2007-03-10 04:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have someone pose as being interested in them and see what her reaction is..
2007-03-10 04:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, I love you, and see how she reacts. if she says i love you back, she loves ya, if she doesnt, she dont love ya. that always works
2007-03-10 04:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by yaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-10 04:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her....
2007-03-10 04:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by da_last_donpapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋