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Why do men lie to girls and why do they cheat?

2007-03-10 04:02:09 · 20 answers · asked by jengurl89 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

these are all good explainations but im not trying to characterize all men in gereral because there are good men out there but im asking what makes the ones that lie and cheat do it and think that they wont get caught

2007-03-10 04:13:00 · update #1

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They lie because they are not real men and they cheat for the same reason. But beware women lie and cheat also so it's not just a male trait. There are sveral reason's for lies and cheating. I could take a lie better than I could a cheater though. If a woman were to cheat on me it's more than her just looking outside of the relationship it's more like a disrespect thing in my book. I mean something was going on in our relationship and she can't come tell me before she feels the need to find another mate? I don't think so.

Whatever you do don't loose hope becaue not all men and women cheat and lie and until you find that special one for you, you may continue to get the lies and cheating.

2007-03-10 04:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0 0

There are several reasons this could be the case with this type of boy. They could be trying to impress themselves. They could be led by lustful passions from weakness or animal nature.

Most are just running from themselves, thinking they could be missing something. Not understanding that having a relationship worth something is far better than having sex with multiples of women, is a trait that is shared by people who don't know who they are.

If they don't know who they are, how can you expect them to know what they want? If they don't respect themselves, they cannot respect you. Then on the other hand, some people, both male and female, are just selfish and only think about what they want and what is beneficial to them.

Yet all of the above is summed up with ignorance. To truly love someone and be happy with that person is peace and happiness. Everything else is an abysmal attempt to give meaning to something that completely void and inconceivably empty. That meaningless substance is called lust or casual sex. Women are included in all the above as well.

2007-03-10 19:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by lil_snipe 3 · 1 0

Some men can't help it. For example my father, he had it all...but he screwed his life up by lieing and cheating with so many different women. Now, he is homeless, and without a dime to his name all because he didn't care that he hurt his kids or the women in his life.

2007-03-10 04:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by muslimah4life91 3 · 0 0

For the exact same reasons women lie and cheat. It takes two to tango.

2007-03-10 04:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1 0

Um lets see why do we lie and cheat..... hmmm.. maybe because when we go out of way to please our ladies they take it for granted, thus it pisses us off and we as men are obviously going to stand our ground, like looking for another woman or with holding info. Its all about trust.... so try to show some consideration.

2007-03-10 04:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

All I'm going to say is NOT ALL men lie, and NOT ALL men cheat.

2007-03-10 04:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0 0

1. Lack of respect for women.
2. Low self-esteem.
3. Immaturity.
4. Sex is fun.

2007-03-10 04:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0 0

For the same reasons women cheat.

They aren't happy in their relationship but aren't men/women enough to admit it and end the relationship.

2007-03-10 04:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sin nature.

Mostly because they do not have Christ in their life, and Hormons and pride, and most like the thrill of doing something they are not supposed to do, kinda like a dare or challenge.

2007-03-10 04:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

not all men do....but they do it for the same reasons some women do...theyre not happy or satisfied...or if they used us to get to someone else[happened to me] but once again not all guys are like that...so dont let one ruin your perspective on the good ones k?

2007-03-10 04:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by Kalee♥ 4 · 0 0

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