is it good to date guys who r older than me like 4 years...?? oohh god... plez.. help me with this... i'm 19... and i met guy who is 23... is it good.. oohh plz... give me nice reply.. for this..and also i've never been in date...n doesn't have experience.. what would u do in ur first two dates..with same man..
2007-03-10 03:57:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age is only a number but you have to understand that if you have never been on a date before you probably should stick around someone that has the same experience as you. On your first date nowadays it is pretty simple just go to the movies and get some dinner. He probably will try to kiss you by the end of the night if he is not too shy. Good Luck.
2007-03-10 04:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's fine dating older guys...4 years is fine too. Be careful with him though, especially if you've never been on a date. Some people, both men and women, take advantage of those who don't know. Just try to be yourself and take your time with him. Make sure you notice signs about him that you're not comfortable with. Set your boundaries to how far you'll be willing to go. Good luck!
2007-03-10 12:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nuela07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A four year difference in age isn't that bad. Now, if you were saying you were 17 and the person was 30 something, then I'd say you might not want to date them, but four years is nothing.
For your first few dates, until you are truly comfortable hanging out with each other, go out to dinner, movies, the beach, amusement parks, miniature golf, go carts.....the list can go on.
2007-03-10 12:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by DH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, its perfectly fine you are above the legal age (18) and he isnt THAT old. Of course theres going to be times when your going to feel weird since he can go to bars and clubs and you cant, and about what to do the first dates, just let it flow, but make it clear if you dont want to have sex!!!
2007-03-10 12:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay. For the first couple of dates, go to dinner or a movie.
2007-03-10 12:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Dan821 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're really freaking out this much, I seriously would suggest finding someone else. If you really like him though, you should trust him enough to know what to do. I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-03-10 12:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry. thats perfectly fine. but you are young so i would say just date around. you shouldnt settle down quite yet and thats what he is looking for.
2007-03-10 12:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all chill out.take a deep breath.just relax i mean if it doens tbother u or ur parents then its fine.as long as ur happy
2007-03-10 11:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by ashley w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't know either one of you. Your likes or dislikes. Take it slow. get to know each other better maybe something will happen.
2007-03-10 12:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate you
2007-03-10 11:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by nathan m 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋