in yr 7 i mit this boy and we kept on doin stuff and everytime he gose out with sum1 he comes bac 2 me sayin he loves me bt is it true i dnt knw. bt the other week he asked me if i wuld have sex with him and im nt sure wot 2 do can u help me xxx plus im now in yr9 nd its still goin on
2007-03-10 03:54:01 · 16 answers · asked by i wnt a bf who dnt cheat or lie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guys a clown.he thinks your gonna give it up like that..make him want you more by watching him not get you ..the more he says" this chicks hard to get with latly".the more he'll respect your sh!t.and the more guys that hear this will know your the only smart one and say to him "she's on to ya"..then like i say".it's on".Make him tell you what you want to hear.make him pay for his sins..say to him"whats that guys name you mentioned the other day.or ,whats (name of his buddy) doin these days?you'll crush him on the spot.just like he crushed the others that helped crush you .and then you will own the man game.another perfect one is, "storey up".he wont know what the hel;l you meant but he'll start to spin...
2007-03-10 04:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the indication is quite neat and quite indicative of what he wants. Please let him start and lead a happy married life now. If you get married wud’nt you want your husband to be completely loyal to you ?? having an affair with your boss is not wrong if you guys have plans to get married in the near future , but having an affair with your boss who is married or who is about to get married is a crime. I would suggest you to leave this job. Don’t you feel guilty and ashamed each day when you see him in office from morning till evening ?? you can change your job and start a new job and make sure you do not end up establishing similar relationships ever again. As far as this boss is concerned, his indication is quite clear , please leave him alone. AND DEAR, a very friendly advise, even if you continue or discontinue this work if after say 6 months he shows interest in you again. Then what would you do ???? Do you want to live your life happily ??? I am sure you would want to. SO PLEASE DO NOT EVER ENCOURAGE HIM AGAIN. First control your self and then if he comes back to you then do not encourage. Think of your future. You will also get married some day and I am sure no one wants such grumpy past affairs which would only spoil your relationships. All the best dear.
2016-03-28 22:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player and he sounds like he is only using you...sorry if it hurts to hear it but i have been in a similar situation. If he really wants you then he would want to get to know you first, like you should never have sex with a guy that you know is looking for sex that might lead to a relationship instead of a relationship that might lead to sex....it may take a little longer to find a lad but it will be worth it in the end! Good luck!x
2007-03-10 04:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by zzzzzzzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? The way you're typing makes it seem like you really don't know what you're doing? I mean, you do speak English, yes?
But to answer your question, if you want to give him sex, it's entirely up to you. He may want you only for that one moment, when he finally gets to satisfy his sexual desires for you, but what about after that? And worst yet, what if you get pregnant? Where will he be then?
Consider the consequences if you give into his sexual desires, and just be ready to pay the price. If you're not ready, than you're not ready. If he leaves you because you won't give him what he wants, then he only loved you for sex and not as a person. Get rid of him and move on!
2007-03-10 04:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Braddah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it - you are too young to deal with the potential consequences, emotionally and physically. You have got years ahead of you to deal with crap from men...enjoy your youth, date boys, hang out with mates but avoid the sex thing until you are a bit older. A word from the wise also....boys at 14 or 15 think the girls who put out are amazing, when they get to 16 or 17 they change and those girls will be cast aside in favour of the girls who held back. No-one wants to date girls who all their mates have shagged. Be careful!!
2007-03-10 09:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tricky one! I don't know if he loves you, but by the sounds of it he could just be using you, though I could be wrong. If he has asked you for sex and you aren't even going out with him then maybe he is just after one thing. I think maybe it is a bit soon for that, but if you think he does love you and you love him back then ask him out. But don't rush into anything with him that you might end up regretting.
2007-03-10 04:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him. He's been going out with others,then coming back to you. Guys will tell you they love you to get sex-then once they get it,they're gone. The fact that you're unsure is your answer-you're not ready. Tell him no and wait until someone you feel loved and secure with comes along-and most importantly,someone you feel ready to share the experience with.
2007-03-10 04:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no chance dont have sex with him. It sounds 2 me that u are a "safety net" 4 him and once he gets wat he wants off u, u wont see him for dust. Tell him ur not ready yet and if he really loves u he will wait 4 u, never do anything just 2 please other people, look after number 1, good luck
2007-03-10 04:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by PETRA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like "New Boyfriend" time to me. You'd better wake up before you really get hurt. This guy only wants the sex, he doesn't care about you at all.
2007-03-10 04:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dont have sex with him, he only likes you because you let him do stuff to you, so if i were you i wouldnt even talk to him, he is just using you. Find a guy that truly deserves you, your so young! Be careful
2007-03-10 03:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋