ive know this bloke for a few years and i have been living as his lodger for a few months. im sure when we first met he had a crush on me but not anymore (ive gained a few pounds!). he keeps saying he loves me a lot as a friend and recently hes strarted to refer to me as his "life partner". he has also said that a large part of his heart is for me only but he has also said that he isnt attracted to me. we spend a lot of time together and have never had any sexual relations but he does hint that he'd like a shag every now and then. we are both nearly always single because we are both a bit weird and just in case you think this is going to be an easy question, he is bi-sexual and just cant say no to a bit of bumfun.
im really confused.
so what does me mean by "life partner"? whats going on in his head? he loves me, he loves me not?
2007-03-10 03:53:30 · 10 answers · asked by MYSTERYGIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He loves that you are willing to keep hanging around as his back up person when he has no one else to hang around with or be emotionally or sexually involved with. He can't be alone, but he doesn't want to fully commit to being with one person. You don't identify yourself as male or female, but that doesn't really matter.
There's really nothing to be confused about. If you are willing to have sex with him and are willing to let him have as many sexual partners as he wishes, there is no problem. He may love you but he is not willing to love just you.
I suspect that you would like a an exclusive, monogamous lover. He would like as many lovers as he can possibly have. Don't get sexually involved with this man. This will lead to your misery and the end of your friendship. Love him as a friend if this is enough for you.
2007-03-10 04:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 21:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by liptak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really confusing for you! Sounds like he is also confused, though. A life partner, by definition, is a romantic partner for life. Have you already shagged or just hinted at it? Sounds like he has feelings for you, but he just doesn't know what to do about them yet.
2007-03-10 03:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only be friends with this guy, because with him being BI....he is putting you At great risk of HIV/AIDS. Even if her gave up the same sex partner, I would not.....it takes several years for the disease to show itself. You need to move on, and move out, because you don't want your friend hitting on some guy you bring home.
2007-03-10 04:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate this **** I miss my family and my friends I truelly have nothing worth living for beside myself and God right now and I feel like I am worthy for much more responsibility
2007-03-10 04:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a Gay man would even use the term "LIFE PARTNER" but if you want to shag him just for kicks, I say go for it.
2007-03-10 04:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you like him? If yes, go for it. Have some fun. I would definately say he likes you back.
If not, you should really tell him. Be honest. Still be friends. Don't burn your bridges.
I hope this helps. Good luck!
nicole
2007-03-10 03:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new place to live and get a life!
2007-03-10 03:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants an open relationship. Would you call that love? I wouldn't.
2007-03-10 04:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's gay.
2007-03-10 03:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋