Ok, i met a guy a couple of weeks ago and he called me like 3 times before i finally said yes, I met him and a few of his friends, and it all seemed peachy keen, i am a little confused b/c now he hasn't called me at all and i have texted him twice since i saw him last a week ago. I dont get it, i know he liked me. any advice?
2007-03-10 03:48:33 · 11 answers · asked by funlovingsinglechic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't push. Give him another few days. If he doesn't respond, he's not interested. If he's still thinking, and you keep texting and calling, he'll run scared because he thinks you're needy.
There's a French proverb: If you run after him, he'll run away; if you run away, he'll run after you.
2007-03-10 03:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you slept with him that night I wouldn't be looking for him to show up any time soon. If nothing drastic like that happend then maybe he was just not as in to you as you are to him. Give him the silent treatment to (calling or texting all the time only makes them mad). Text him one more time and tell him that you will be more than happy to talk to him when he decides to contact you but until he has time to talk to you you will not be making an attempt to get ahold of him.
2007-03-10 03:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by girl lost...Woman Found 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT call him! you already texted him twice and thats enough, wait for him to make the move that way you dont come off as too needy or clingy guys freak out by that. Good luck!
2007-03-10 03:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
BOYS LIE.
Anyway, why are you texting him? CALL him, and give him an ultimatum. Tell him to stop being a pus5y. Then move on. Love Jack
2007-03-10 03:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just be really busy don't keep on texting and calling him b/c then he'll just think you are desperate, just take a deep breath and wait for him to make the next move
you'll be tempted to keep on trying, but don't everything will work out
2007-03-10 03:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on, maybe he thought the date didnt go very well, or you can keep waiting for him to call. All i'm saying is, don't get depressed or anything if he doesnt call back, there are other people...
:)
2007-03-10 03:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by balloon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like to take their time calling back. give hime a few more days. if he doesn't call in another week then forget about him and find someone better.
2007-03-10 03:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying bout it.U take da 1st step u call him nd talk to him.u make plans to meet him.mayb hes just a lil shy. just give it time
2007-03-10 03:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by ashley w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is piss and moan and wonder, why the heck doesn't he just ask me out??? Then you shrug your shoulders, say oh well I guess it wasn't supposed to happen and go on, smile, live your life healthy and happy. :)
My wish is to have a man WANT to spend time with me. How about you? :)
2007-03-10 04:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call him or talk to him somewhere like school (if ur still in it) ask him why he didnt and if he was still in to you but dont rush it all at him.
2007-03-10 03:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by CHANNING TAUM HOTTIE<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋