ok my best female friend has been trying to hook me up with friends of hers. Im in talks with one of her friends now but i think im starting to fall for my best friend. We talk on IM everyday and help eachother out with any problems and talk about some personal stuff. She's everything i would want in a women but i don't want to make our friendship strange if i tell her. What do i do just try with her friends and just be friends or tell her how i feel.
2007-03-10 03:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive known her for only 7 months
2007-03-10 03:48:55 · update #1
tell her how u feel. but make sure she doesn't have a bf or has a crush on sumbody else
2007-03-10 03:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by mariah!:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how much you value her friendship. You have an advantage of knowing how she thinks and acts but if you take the plunge and it doesn't work out then you may have lost the friendship too.
Try to weigh up the pros and cons .
Also if you want a sounding board, tell her in a jokey way like " why cant I find someone perfect like you?"
Good luck
2007-03-10 11:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by pinkimmylou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just go tell her, that would be weird and you would be risking your friendship. You have to try to read some signs on her. Give her some clues about how you feel, and see how she reacts. If you think she might feel the same way, then you tell her.
2007-03-10 11:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by cannabia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have these two friends that were just like you. They each were best friends. Now there dating and happier then ever. They told me that because they were best friends before they dated they felt really comfertable with eachother now that they are dating.
2007-03-10 11:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by Robert L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i would tell her. if you really like her, you should be willing to take that risk.It also depends on the way she acts around you. does she sometimes flirt or not. take those thoughts in consideration.. Tell her face to face and tell her everything! She shouldnt let that get in the way of yalls friendship.
2007-03-10 11:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by yaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, tell her. what is the worst thing in the world? regretting things? what is the solution to every problem in the world? communication! oui, my friend, tell her.
cheers
2007-03-10 14:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by theashtrayisfull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she has hinted to you that she likes you then go for it, if not than 4get about it. b/c if you say something and shes not interested than that will make a weird vibe
2007-03-10 11:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her Q....take a risk...the awkwardness shall pass, but yr regret will not if u dont take the chance...
Good luck, luv
2007-03-10 11:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by kinduvabrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, go for it, and if she doesn't like you back, then you'll know that and won't have to keep on wondering if you should ask her out.
2007-03-10 11:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋