I've been with this girl for over a year and things have started to change. She doesn't want to talk to me as much and when we do talk alot of times she tells me about other guys that she meets and how i'm lucky to be with her. When we are together she hardly ever seems interested in me. Alot of times she insults me when I want to do more with her. She used to do things with me and we use to have such a good time together. I don't know what to do.
2007-03-10 03:46:33 · 14 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe nice guys finish last.
2007-03-10 03:50:09 · update #1
I really sorry to say this, but I think she is getting sick of the relationship. Sometimes after a while things just get kind of boring or one or both people lose interest in the relationship. Ask her if this is how she is feeling. Better to find out now then to stick it out and waste more years with someone who is looking for something else.
2007-03-10 03:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's no longer interested in you & that is not likely to pass as you've been together over a year. Ask her if she wants to break up. I don't see a future for this relationship.
And you know what she failed to mention? That she's lucky to be with you. She left that out. One sided only. Thinks she's too good for you now. Sorry bro, but find a better girl who doesn't insult you by her insinuations either. You're much better off without her.
2007-03-10 11:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's becoming apathetic to the relationship. Her feelings seem like they've changed too. She realize how much of a good guy you've been after she's lost you and been treated like crap by other guys. Confront her and ask her what she wants, if she wants to stay with you or go with the "other" guys. Knowing what she wants will make the ordeal of breaking or mending things up a little easier. Good luck!
2007-03-10 11:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nuela07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This girl sounds like a bigtime loser. So you're lucky to be with her, eh? Not half as lucky as she is to be with you! She sounds like the type who thinks she can keep her man at heel with disdain. But you, my friend, are not a dog. Break the leash and run free. You sound like a nice bloke, find someone who treats you well, not like a housepet she doesn't particularly want anymore. Because that's what it sounds like to me--she's bored but afraid if you dump her she'll be alone. Which she probably will. Move on.
2007-03-10 11:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by anna 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remind her of the old times. Just bring a memorable one up. See what she says. Maybe ask to do it again some time. If she's still uninterested in you, I would waste her time any more. Or yours. Go find someone else who cares. I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-03-10 11:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by nicole 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Before you jump to conclusion you need to tell her that you are noticing a change in her. If she doesn't respond in a positive way then it may be time to "kick her to the curb"
Good luck
Oh and don't be a door mat for her you deserve better.
2007-03-10 11:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by CarynB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, you need to buy her something nice like a necklace or bracelet with roses and just take it nice and slow. Take her out on a romantic dinner with the gift and the roses. Then take her to a movie. During this date be sure to mention how much you appreciate her.
2007-03-10 11:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by yeahh_buddy23231 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
leave her alone....she'll just hurt u in the future it sounds like she's cheating if she's talking about different guys that's not normal why would she tell u about other guys if she cares about u?.........don't force the relationship with her if she wants out let her go she'll realize that u were a good person and regret it later.
2007-03-10 11:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
apparently she doenst really like u.i think u should end it b/c u shouldnt take stuff liek dat.so talk to her nd if she still d oenst change then tahts it.i mean seriously thats bullshit nd if i was u i wouldnt put up wit dat.u need to go nd find sum1 that loves u nd treat u da same as u would treat her
2007-03-10 11:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by ashley w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is my own opinion, but I think it's time you started looking for a new girlfriend.
2007-03-10 11:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋