Im a 23 year old single lad who is single all the time. Ive had a few relationships but ive always ended up being used for sex or being taken advantage of and girls ending up being so evil to me. Im as nice as I can to girls but im always rejected, or messed around. If theres a girl I like, it takes me ages to get the courage to approach them. Ive took things slow with a few girls ive fancied, and asked some girls out straight up every now and then but they ended up going out with total idiots and taking the mickey out of me. Where am I going wrong?
2007-03-10 03:46:06 · 15 answers · asked by gbasource 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You neglected to mention the oversized hump you have been trying to hide. It is hard for a mutant such as yourself to associate with the opposite sex, which is why you are probably wondering if you are gay. Girls only want what us guys want- stability, security, a good bang on Wednesday night (why do you think they call it hump day?), and to eat out at an expensive Italian restaurant occassionally.
Sounds like the chicks you are hitting on are skags to begin with and you need to start trading up. Bang the lesser chicks to gain experience points and then move on up another level- think of it like Frogger.
Ciao
2007-03-10 03:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are a dream come true for the right woman and believe me she is out there. I think age may have something to do with it but a lot of times women fall for jerks! I've done it , my friends have done it. We are not even sure why. I think you may need to work on your self confidence and attitude. You need an edge and some mystery. You cant always be available. Think about the kind of person that intrigues you and be more like them. Even if you are not busy don't let anyone know that. Work on yourself be somewhat selfish and girls will wonder "hey, what is he all about" Once you have won someones heart that is when you can open up and show what a wonderful person you are. Not everyone deserves that gift and no one deserves it right away because girls can be evil sometimes. As you get older and all of these girls have spent time with many Mr. wrongs trust me they will be asking themselves"where are all of the good guys?"
2007-03-10 03:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to toughen up, most girls love a bad boy, so act a bit cocky, fake your confidence, flirt a lot not just with the girl you like but all the girls, be a bit laddish......from my experience between me and my friends we all like the slightly arrogant guys who are nice, never be nasty but the ones who seem a bit of a challenge. When you get your girl keep your independance, take a manly stance, make decisions, be confident but remember to always have a life seperate to her, don't ever let her think you need her (want her yes) but not need and don't rely on her. If you can't be happy by yourself you'll never be happy when part of a couple!
2007-03-10 03:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've met many guys who have said the same thing as you and many have been my friends! As I've got older and realised what's important in a guy I've regretted going for the "bad" boy option. Believe me you are not doing anything wrong but many girls prefer the excitement of going out with someone who treats them badly. (the good ones soon learn otherwise!)My advice is to stick to what you are doing but don't take any nonsense from girls and think "do I deserve to be treated this way"? I've met men who haven't met the right woman until they were in their thirties. (I'm not saying it will take that long!!) but just enjoy meeting people and you will meet someone who respects you for who you are.
2007-03-10 04:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you trying to hard. im a girl 22 and at my age im not looking for some one i can just run all over because then i would so just think about that a person can only do what you let them do to you be easy with girls. always be your self but at the same time talk it slow let them see what your all about keep hope alive
2007-03-10 03:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by G_CODE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound a really nice lad. some girls like the idiots tho why i don't know. your not doing anything wrong your just not meeting the right girl for you. hang on in there.
2007-03-10 03:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a rare resource, and a determined girl will find you.
You probably don't have to do anything----there are most likely lots of interested girls around you right now, who you are ignoring. Don't be afraid of them.
2007-03-10 03:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Self confidence is the greatest aphrodisiac" Madonna once said. It's the truth. You see these beautiful girls going out with not so cute guys and all I can say is that Madonna's right.
2007-03-10 03:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being too nice! treat em mean to keep em keen! in my eyes, ladies like a challenge and always want what you can't have. its good to be nice but show a bit of a wicked side and they'll soon be falling at your feet! sounds like its their loss to me mate anyway, you'll meet the right one soon! : )
2007-03-10 04:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Scorps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should work on approaching girl and getting to know a girl that you like better and make a move
2007-03-10 03:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋