ok so i was ''going out'' with this one guy and his best friend was ''dating'' my best friend. last night my boyfriend called and dumped me... ya know whatever but then about 20 min. later his friend called my best friend when i called to see why (their relationship was going great) and my xboyfriends friend said ''well he was dumping you and i just figured i should just dump her i have to do it eventualy'' and then i find out that my xboyfriend cheated on me ... alot... so .. my girl and i want revenge should we get it (and what would b good revenge) or should we just sit it out and get over them?
2007-03-10 03:40:56 · 13 answers · asked by max t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(my xbfs friend called and dumped her) sorry should have clarified that
2007-03-10 04:29:16 · update #1
Well, actually I am going to come back here and change what I said. Show up in his house in the dark in a dark mask, in the shadows, do a dark haunted laugh, Make sure you're dressed in dark black robes, and sneak about his house. Hide in closets. When he sees you, make a deep laugh and approach him ever so slowly, and then jump out of ur clothes and start dancing and singing and go "OH NO NOT I, I WILL SURVIVE, OH AS LONG AS I KNOW HOW TO LOVE, I KNOW I'LL STAY ALIVE'
2007-03-10 03:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge always hurt two people; the other person and you.
You think a man like that is worth your time? Don't you feel great now that you see how he really is and the great thing he is out of your life?
Ignore him. When people have ill feelings toward a person like that they get some kind of delight because they figure they still affecting your life. When you ignore him that give then what hi really deserves.
2007-03-10 11:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very best revenge is to get on with your life. These guys are just a bad smell that passed through--open the windows and get some fresh air.
"I just figured I should just dump her, I have to do it anyway???" These guys are both cretins. Don't waste another second thinking about them.
2007-03-10 11:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around....sounds like they were both two worthless Peas in a Pod. I understand your logic for feeling the need to be revengeful with these two. However, I do believe it is best that you just move on and put yourselves out there to find two good guys that deserve to be treated with respect. So he was cheating to boot? Please choose the next ones a little more carefully. Good luck to the both of you.
2007-03-10 12:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it feels good, revenge is just a dumb excuse to make yourself feel better.
Its immature and you'll never end up being able to really get over relationships and things with it. Don't plot revenge because it won't end up anywhere in your life. Move on and look forward to the future.
Goodluck and becareful with what you do!
2007-03-10 11:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Akilllaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Getting over them quickly is probably the best revenge. Seems to me that any other act of revenge would only prove how much power they have over you.
2007-03-10 12:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge. Find out who his new gf is and call her (acting like your x) and dump her.
2007-03-10 11:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by mariah!:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just replace them and act like they never existed. Do you really want to let them know they got to you? Or how about "you were not that important anyway"? Treat them how they treated you.
2007-03-10 11:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... you could always post a brief bio of him on don't date him girl! I've had so much fun reading about these ******* and their techniques.
Lotsa luck!
2007-03-10 11:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by Smurfette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge may feel good, but it's not right. go to counceling, maybe that will help. Sulking around is bad, but revenge is worse. just wait, their time will come.
2007-03-10 11:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Naomi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋