we had a huge fight a month ago and now i miss him soo much i can't stop thinking about him it's killing me but i don't want to show it for people to know how i feel because we went through alot of drama with his friends and my friends and our ex's interfering because of jealousy........i want to call him but i don't know if he'll talk to me after that fight we had.........what can i do to make up with him? he probably gave up on me because i'm 7 years younger than him and my friends act real stupid and childish sometimes and they say crazy things to him because he's in the military they think that he's a player so it's really frustrating with the drama but we work on the same base so i know where he is all the time. i need advice
2007-03-10 03:34:44 · 11 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing that you can do is calling him and try to talk to him.You shouldn't have let your "friends" interfere in your relationship if you truly cared about him. Now you can only hope that things smooth out. There is no sense in just waiting. Go ahead and call him.....NOW.
2007-03-10 03:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Wallace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need to mature some more because you are letting jealousy get in the way of a relationship. Obviously there was no security in that relationship so I would think you need to give yourself time to get over this guy and find someone else. If he hasn't made an effort to contact you, then I would say don't bother anymore. Good luck!
2007-03-10 03:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, take a deep breath and relax. You need to view this situation logically and not emotionally. Now listen to me, if the two of you had a special relationship, before this big fight, you should not give up on it. Do not try to rush back in it, but talk to him, casually. Did you say anything you did not mean? Apologize for it. Talk to him when you are in a good mood, with a clear and level head. If he does not want to reconcile, then maybe your relationship was not that special to begin with. If he does not want to talk to you, then move on. When a guy guy loves a woman, or cares deeply for her, one fight will never make him turn his back on her. You deserve to be with someone who respects and cares for you as much as you do them. To summarize, talk to him, if the two of you reconcile, great, if not, move on, there are guys that will not leave you after a fight.
2007-03-10 03:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by the15don86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
battling is merely area of any relationship, yet as long as u do no longer say or do something thats going to be adverse u would be o.k.. while u combat confirm you attempt to maintain ur cool by way of fact issues which could be mentioned or carried out could reason mistrust while u kiss and make-up. So while u combat back merely say something like " hi shall we modify the difficulty" or Iets get removed from one yet another so we are able to the two cool off in the previous we do or say something which will harm later!! Thats the desirable
2016-12-14 15:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by bremmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll just keep feeling worse and worse if you don't call him. Just be totally honest about your feelings. Ask him to be the same. Because without honesty you can't have a 'mature relationship.' If he turns you down, at least you tried instead of just wondered. There ARE many fish in the sea!
2007-03-10 03:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to let go. The road goes both ways. If he wanted to renew your relationship he would have made a move by now. You didn't make it, and that's sad, but you have to get by the hurt and maybe look for someone closer to your age.
2007-03-10 03:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.. Get him alone. Say you're sorry and sex his azz to the point that he forgets that he was fighting with you.. It works! Good luck!
2007-03-10 03:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 years younger don't make up find some1 your age ALL ABOUT RESPECT
2007-03-10 03:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by stickytack77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only go to the mans hart 2 ways
STOMACK AND SEX
2007-03-10 03:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋