What can I do. I feel desperate just for thinking about this situation.
I have a cousin I met in Italy when I was 11. Then we met again through my space now that we are 23. I asked to come and visit me and she came. I was dating the man I am in love with. I do not know why I just trusted her. A friend of mine told me to be careful and not expose her to him. I didn’t listen, I though she had values and won’t allow him to flirt her, and that him won’t flirt her too. I don’t know why I trusted someone I had not seen in 12 years. I have the idea that I wanted this pretty cousin to visit me so that he knew I had pretty cousins. I even feel guilty for searching a pretty cousin around the world so that he could like her.
She was here for 20 days. I did everything to like her, but it was impossible. All she did was criticized me and my relationship with this guy, and the relationship with all my friends.
My relationship with this guy is really special, but we have problems because
2007-03-10 03:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by grapes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have problems because we live in different cities. We constantly break up and reunite, and that has been a year since we met. I had one break up before my cousin left.
Months later, she said, that he wrote her a message telling that he was going to Europe. That was a shock for me. She said “welll anyway you broke up and aren’t talking anymore right?” and I said “well he just called me three days ago, I am still emotionally connected to him” and well I just tried to believe in the innocence of his messages and didn’t asked for more.
Two months passed since he wrote her a message. He just came to visit me we had wonderful time together, but we just had another fight. People around me says that he looks for fights before leaving just to try to keep me away from his mind because we cannot be together until may.
This cousin seems to evade me the last weeks on msn. Five days ago I could talk to her. I asked, “what happened with him?” and she said….
2007-03-10 03:24:35 · update #1
and she said…. “he asked me to go to a wedding on Spain”. And I can’t believe that! It is so painful. I can’t even talk or think about it. She said “sorry I though you weren’t talking any more”. And I said, “I told you he still calls me, and last week he came to visit me.” And she said…. That is weird. How can that be weird, he has always done that….
I am begging help from God, to help me understand the fact that he is doing that to me. Begging God to help me understand why she did that to me. I don’t know what to say, to him, to her.
I am still in love with him…
2007-03-10 03:24:58 · update #2
Talk to him.. But a lot of this was your fault.. Hopefully, the talk will put him back on track.
2007-03-10 03:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok me and my acquaintances made up a rule 1st-2nd cousins OFF LIMITS third-4th cousins-relies upon on how close yall have been turning out to be up an in case you observed them alot and there like kin or in case you in user-friendly terms observed them like a million each and every 3 years 5th and up honest game infant!!! :)
2016-09-30 11:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to tell your cousin about herself. and i think u should move on past your boyfriend. because long distance relationships do not work. trust me, i've had some experience. try to move on. maybe you'll find another fishi in the sea.
2007-03-10 03:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody knows the relationship is special, except for you and him. maybe find a time and have a heartfelt talk with him to let him know how you feel?
2007-03-10 03:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ashlyn Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her back to Italy and find a new b/f...
Don't marry someone you know will be a cheater...
2007-03-10 03:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wish them well...you've lost him already
2007-03-10 03:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be one less relative if I were you!
2007-03-10 03:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the N***
2007-03-10 03:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋