Okay so heres the deal. I'm in love with this boy. I know he has love for me but he tells me he's not in love with me. But when we are together he acts like he's my boyfriend. But he claims that he does not want to be with me. I'm extremely close to his family and him as well. I sleep at his house all the time, in his bed, with him, and he doesn't seem to mind. Even when he has a girl friend I'm his first priority. He does everything and says everything a boyfriend should, but he tells me he doesn't want to be with me because he is scared of losing me. But when I ask him why he is with these other girls he says he doesn't care if he loses them or hurts them and he is just young and confused right now. He also tells me he wants me to be the mother of his children one day. I want to let go but it's just so hard.. and I can't. And it seems as if he doesn't want to let go of me either... what should I do? We tried being "just friends" but we just can't.
2007-03-10 03:19:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions speak louder than words.
Even though he says he doesn't love you.
He obviously has feelings for you.
Guys just do not usually want to commit especially when they are still boys.
If you really want to move on, find someone else that you are attracted to and start sleeping in his bed. ( I am sure the new person won't mind either unless he turns out to be gay. )
Now if you cannot find anyone else that you find attractive maybe you should stay where you are.
You are both young and have no need to rush into anything, or out of anything for that matter.
But one thing is for sure, the fastest way to get over someone is to start seeing other people.
I hope this helps.
Good Luck.
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2007-03-10 03:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋