My bf broke up with me a day ago, and haven't talked since. we had gone out for 2 years and everything seem perfect until about a week ago. he said he felt i never showed how much i loved him enough and that i was too shy etc and that we had just been like friends recently... he could'nt tell me if he still loved me but asked if i still loved him... why would he need to know that? if he didnt love me(im guessing by his answer)
he even said he didnt know if he wanted to break up because he was afraid i wouldn't want to get back with him, and that he didn't want to hurt me.He said he had changed (over a week?!) he finally told me he supposes it was over.. what the hell does that mean, is it over for good? will he ever want me back :(
2007-03-10 03:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by kaykay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i talk to him? we had a holiday booked with mates, should i still go?
2007-03-10 03:14:24 · update #1
every day he"d tell me how much he loved me, it was a perfect relationship, don't get that wrong! & wanted to continue with me when we went to uni (in dif countries). do u think he was just overwhelemed and over thought things too much?
2007-03-10 03:21:31 · update #2
he said he still likes me..
2007-03-10 03:22:16 · update #3
Maybe he just got a little freaked out? (guys do that) Relax its all good! You should still go on the holiday. I'm sure he will be telling you soon enough how much he cares for you and he just was not thinking right! We have all done it.
2007-03-10 03:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.Know It All 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is gonna damage He needs to leave you. Sorry its the reality. he's specializing in different issues that he reveals significant and needs to take a destroy from you and the relationship you share. He nevertheless tells you those issues and kisses you because he's as afraid to lose you as you're to lose him. besides the undeniable fact that in guy communicate, taking a destroy is a outstanding way of exclaiming we are no longer courting. He thinks that he's loose to do as he pleases now, and the unhappy ingredient is (brace your self i will say it) he might want to be utilising you as a back up in case he would not discover something else that he likes. he's exploring. tell him you're both at the same time or no longer, that he won't be able to have both. Its no longer honest to you. he's out exploring and transferring on at the same time as your stuck wondering whats happening. inspite of his answer is, carry him to it, if no longer he will imagine that he can destroy out with this contained in the destiny too. sturdy luck woman.
2016-10-17 11:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by stever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't mean that it is over for good. He may still want you... You should start to talk to him but wait until it is natural so you don't scare him. you probably should go somewhere with him to try and patch things up. Good luck!
2007-03-10 03:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by chocoholic23511 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's bored with you for some reason. He may have another girl in the wings and was trying to let you down easy
2007-03-10 03:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go anywhere with him. Call it quits and move on! You can do better.
2007-03-10 03:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. find a new guy.
2007-03-10 03:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋