I broke with gf last sunday as i started seeing the difference in our thinking and personalities as i am 27 and she is 19. I really still love her but I thought it would not work out in the long run.
I feel very guilty and bad of breaking up with her and dont know how to pull through this. We were always together and suddenly i can feel the void then again its my fault for this situtation. What should I do?
2007-03-10 02:28:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember why you broke up. If you think this was the right reason, then you're probably right.
You are probably thinking about settling down more now. I'm 28 and I know I am. Perhaps she's not the one to do this with - you miss her but perhaps this is for the best.
My advice would be to not look for anyone new either, for a while at least, and get strong on your own - 'the void' can be filled later, trust me.
If you decide you really do love her, and think you can compromise with her on where you go from here, go back. You can make it work if you both want it.
2007-03-10 02:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Whateverandeverandamen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend had broken up wit me 2 saturdays ago basically because of our differences in attitudes & ages... But after one week he wanted me back... He was like why would he give up someone that he care about for some little dumb reasons.... So now we are back together & couldnt be anymore happier!! I think that he jus needed a break 2 clear his mind... & actually it helped 4 me 2 even thou it killed me inside wen it happened... but now we dont even worry about things that happened in the past we are all about the future now!
I hope my message helped u out a lil...
Good Luck
2007-03-10 02:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she has a lot maturing to do, find somebody alittle older. Because obviously both of your mindsets are different...so just move, you will find someone for you...who meets your personality.
2007-03-10 02:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by muslimah4life91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was u really ready for a break up?
live ur life 2 the full theres plenty more females out there. xxx
2007-03-10 02:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by danielletyra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes too young and needs time before committing she may be with u now but when she hits 21 she will want some freedom trust me i've been there
2007-03-10 02:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love her..n she loves u back..then all the differences in the world ..whether its in ideas or age doesnt matter. if ur unhappy without her n she without u..then theres no point in being separate..u guyz should get back. good luck
2007-03-10 02:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Riti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude your almost 30, act like it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-10 02:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋