2007-03-10 02:27:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I only have 3 bridesmaids! I was thinking of something like a nice little handbag, Elsa Peretti initial necklace from Tiffany, a monogrammed cashmere sweater, and a monogrammed tote.
2007-03-10 02:48:08 · update #1
Very nice, glad to hear another bride with class!!
I am spending about $300 per bride right now.
I am getting them gold tiara and earrings- nice ones not cheap. And I am paying for their hair and makeup to be done professionally for the wedding. They all love the hair and makeup part best because all they have to do is show up with the dress and shoes.
I like the Tiffany's idea because it's classy and they can wear it again and again.
2007-03-11 10:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. That is A LOT of money to spend on your bridesmaid gifts. I will only have one or two myself, but I was thinking that a $50 gift would be "spending a little more" -- I can't imagine $500. What exactly are you thinking of giving them? I mean, if you have that kind of money, and your bridesmaids have gone above and beyond their roles and provided so much assistance with the planning, then maybe a more expensive gift would be in order (like say, $100 each). But I think that in any case, $500 per maid is excessive. They'll appreciate whatever you give them. Below is a link to what I am planning to get my bridesmaids (possibly engraved, too, if possible). The store where I first found them is sold out, but I'm sure they can be found elsewhere.
2007-03-10 19:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on you and your financial situation.
But in most cases; if you go over $100-$150 you're really pushing it. It would seem as though you are trying to hard to impress/be closer with your bridesmaids.
I would say; throw them a party to show them how much you appreciate them; and give them gifts for around $150 -- That way you break even; you're not being cheap and you're not overdoing it.
Or take them to a really nice 5 star resteraunt and catch a show; then give them the gifts; you would also not be overdoing it; but you would be spending about 300-400 so you wouldn't feel so bad.
I was once a bridesmaid and only recieved a gift worth $65.
You can also just buy their jewelry for your wedding; and pay to get their hair done & buy their shoes. Then you can get away with giving them nice and thoughtful gifts like engraved jewelry boxes.
Or you can take them to a spa; and buy them engraved towels, robe and slippers.
The possibilites are endless
2007-03-10 10:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by thepenpal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I received the Elsa Peretti necklace as a bridesmaid gift...it is one of my favorite pieces of jewelry. The necklace alone makes a wonderful gift.
No need to spend $500.
2007-03-11 15:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky7979 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple of things to consider...
Many brides make their bridesmaids gift something for the girls to wear in the wedding. It save the bridesmaids money.
I suggest, however, that you give them something they will use in real life as a rememberance of your wedding. The amount you spend it up to you but the more your bridesmaids have to spend on the wedding, the nicer gift you should get them.
2007-03-10 12:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jacqi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness you must have more money than you know what to do with. Please be sensible and spend a smaller amount no more than 50$. They are your bridesmaids because you asked them, but now I'm thinking that they may have said yes to you knowing that you are over indulgent when it comes to gift giving, unless you are in a high income bracket! Please don't spend more just to impress anyone, follow your heart and give them a gift you think they will love from you. Congratulations and Best Wishes to You and Your Fiance'. Remember keep that purse closed and use the money towards your Wedding or Honeymoon.
2007-03-10 11:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is from the professionals:
Q. Am I required to give my bridal team "thank you" gifts? How much do I spend?
A. Think of it this way -- your maids are majorly putting themselves out for you. To remain in their good graces, show your gratitude by gifting them properly. Many brides give out gifts at the rehearsal dinner. Sometimes it's something the girls can wear on the day of the wedding, like a barrette or a bracelet. Other brides say thanks with a magazine subscription, wedding keepsakes, or special gifts handpicked with each attendant's interests/tastes in mind. As for a price range, it depends entirely on your budget. We think spending $25-$75 is a safe bet.
2007-03-10 10:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by JEN P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Damn that's alot of money! I see why you can only have 3 bridesmaids. How much is you soon to be husband spending on his group? If you've got the money then go ahead but all of that is definitly not necessary. I would say just take one of those things and go with it.
2007-03-10 11:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a very large, very very large wedding party I ended up only being able to spend $20 dollars on the girls and $25 on the guys. I wanted to spend so much more but because of the size of my wedding party wasn't able to.
Think of it this way, if you are a bridesmaid in their wedding do you think that they will spend that much money on you? If yes then go for it, if no then reconsider.
2007-03-10 23:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by mustang_jenn2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think $500 is a bit too much. If you wanted to give that much you could have paid for their dresses, nails, make-up, and shoes, unless the dresses and shoes cost more than $500. If that's so you have very expensive taste and your wedding should be beautiful.
Like majority are saying, $50-100 would be great.
2007-03-10 13:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Cormeliusb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋