so i got this girl's number last week. and she gave it to me. seems like she's intrested.
I texted her few days later, sayin' "hey, whta's up?" and she didn't reply back, so few hours later, i called her but hung up after 3 bells.
it's been more than 24hours and she hasn't called me back yet?
what should i do now? should I text her? call her today? i was trying to take her out today. but
guys help!
2007-03-10 02:19:01 · 12 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't want to come off as a stalker.
Call her one more time, leave a message this time. Don't sound desperate and don't mention that you tried to get in touch with her before. Just be casual, say you were looking forward to getting together with her and ask her to call you back. Then leave it to her. If she doesn't call back she isn't interested and isn't worth your time.
2007-03-10 02:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save face & throw her number out. If you see her in person again before she calls you back, under any circumstances DO NOT bring up the fact you called her & she never called you back. I'll even take it a step further, unless she says something to you; don't say a word to her. That means let her engage in a conversation with you first. 1st off it makes you look desperate & childish, secondly women are wierd like that. One minute they want you to give them a call & the next minute they're too busy for a lousy 10 minute hi, wanna hang out, ok bye conversation. And finally, if she has friends that know you & tells everyone how you asked her why she never called you back, man o' man you'll never hear the end of it! Some girls are genuinely interested & others just want attention & will try to get it from anyone at anytime regardless of who it is.
2007-03-10 10:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are afraid. Go ahead and call her again. Let it ring a lot more times. Relax, she maybe busy and just couldn't get back to you on your schedule. If she doesn't answer again, try again after a few days. If you don't get her it is not meant to be and move on. Nothing personal, it is just life. If it is the right time for you two she will answer, don't fret the small stuff.
2007-03-10 10:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay WHOA! If I was in her position and you kept calling it would creep me out. I mean call her and leave a message, telling her who you are, and your number that way for sure she knows who it is. If she doesn't call back then..Then stop calling she obviously is not interested. But definateyl don't keep calling that gets really annoying. Even though she gave you her number, she may be re-thinking things now. I've been in this position.
2007-03-10 10:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by *~* Sexy Mama *~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and let her answer this time - ask her if she has any plans tonight and if not would she be interested in getting together. The absolute worse thing that can happen is she says she's busy. You should be able to tell by her tone of voice, or her hesitation, whether or not she's blowing you off. If she is truly busy tonight ask her if she's free tomorrow. If she says she's busy again then let it go - move on my friend.
2007-03-10 10:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK..this is how you should approach this. Call her again. Wait until you hit her voicemail if she doesn't answer. Say something like "Hey it's me ______, just calling to say whats up, and maybe we could hang out sometime. Well call me back!"
2007-03-10 10:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by RKO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up so easily!
Try text one more time. If she don't get back
forget her. By the way - say a bit more than 'wots up?'
2007-03-10 10:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..most probably she didnt get ur message..dont worry..she'll reply soon.
n ya..advice..DONT just call someone n hang up before taking to them..(especially on mobile) its really creepy n irritating..telling u this from personal experience
2007-03-10 10:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Riti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever think maybe she wasnt there? text her not now but maybe in a few days if a cool event comes up and just be like hay you wanna come with me to the .............
2007-03-10 10:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till she calls or you run into her! Don't seem like your desperate or that you need her, make her think she needs you.
2007-03-10 10:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋