I don't stink, I'm not ugly, I'm not psycho or anything but everywhere I go someone stops talking to me for no reason. Work. School. The groups I'm in. Even my friends don't call me anymore. I try to be nice to people and I act interested in their lives but it's like I don't exist.
2007-03-10 02:14:02 · 15 answers · asked by kstackney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe they r ALL just haters
2007-03-10 02:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you did something to offend them before.
Could you have taken someones boyfriend, are you involved in an ugly divorce or do you talk about people behind their backs? Word like this travels pretty quickly and is hard to overcome. Even if you didn't do some of those things, rumors about these things can make people really uneasy
You have to feel positive about yourself to "make" other people want to befriend you. Maybe you are just putting out some bad vibes.
Whatever the case may be, I would work at honing my social skills and projecting a good positive image. Try not to act depressed, dissapointed, sad, grumpy....people steer clear of others that could bring them down.
You know what they say "put on a happy face"...you'll see a change!
Good luck.
2007-03-10 02:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol....this is very hard question. I am going thru something simliar, but to me its a transition period, and I know that in time the doors will open up to a new life. Some have said that you need to "make" friends, but I find that to be too simplistic.
I dont think you are doing anything wrong, maybe its just a time for you to focus on getting yourself together. Sometimes to withdraw from the traffic of life is a period of self refreshing. Then when you come out again, you will be rejuvenated and ready to take new avenues, and find some interesting people.
2007-03-10 02:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by EyeKneadPoints 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be funny, but is it possible you have bad breath? I'm only asking because quite often people do and don't realize it. Personally, when I feel comfortable with someone I will tell them as gently as possible - there are ways to take care of that - it's a small problem. However, if that's the case and nobody is telling you then try to find out if that might be the problem. Good luck!
2007-03-10 02:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to take it a little easier on yourself. give it one good, honest effort to look at yourself (only you will know if it is honest) and see if you can find anything you have said or done that either is, or (more importantly) could be perceived as some sort of character or personality flaw. IF you can find one - try to change it without changing who you are. if you honestly cannot find one (entirely possible), then just because you may be suffering the effects of a lack of communication with those close to you, does NOT necessarily mean it is your fault or anything you have done wrong.
be who you are - true friends will find you
2007-03-10 02:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember that it works both ways. Maybe you should call them sometime and ask them to do something. Friendships take effort on both parts. If you have a good friend who hasn't called in a while, call them up and talk to them about this. Maybe they could give you some insight. Don't feel bad about yourself, call your friends and get together.
2007-03-10 02:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you lack confidence? Sometimes if your friends can sense that you are insecure, they won't want to be in your life anymore. Also, make sure that you are not saying anything that may offend them (you may not think it does, but to them it could). You should try talking to them. Say "is there anything I did to hurt you lately. I've been feeling really distant from and am sorry for whatever I did to hurt you. I really love you and want to remain friends." That will show that you want to be in their lives and care about them.
2007-03-10 02:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be hanging with the wrong crowd or it is possible that your attitudes and demeanor are coming off as offensive or arrogant to others. Might I suggest that you talk to a professional, counselor, priest, pastor, rabbi, etc., for their input as to what the problem may be. And hang it there. Don't give up.
2007-03-10 02:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to tell from this what or if you are doing anything wrong. Maybe people pick up on your nervousness. Do you have someone close who can help you analyze the conversations?
2007-03-10 02:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are way too conscious of feeling no one likes you. You are giving off a negative energy. Relax. See yourself smiling laughing and your phone ringing with invitations. See people enjoying your company. Never let another negative thought enter your head about yourself.
2007-03-10 02:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act normal my friend.
Appreciate who you really are.
Don't try to impress or please other people when it's not who you really are.
Friends are the ones who stick beside you. Share your joys. And share your pains too.
You are not doing anything wrong.
You just happen to be luckless in finding people who see you for really who you are.
Don't lose heart.
Good luck.
=)
2007-03-10 02:18:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋