2007-03-10 02:13:04 · 25 answers · asked by lily paige 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RUN. Don't stop to look back, just run.
There's plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-03-10 02:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by NEWTOME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Survey Say.......... You Break Up with Him. Think about it. He's cheating on his gf because he found someone better. So when he finds someone better than you he will do the same thing. It's cool to leave your mate because you found someone else but why stay with them and go off with someone else? I would say that he is using both of you. He's using he for the stability because they've probably been together for a while and he's using you as the "fun on the side." Why not just be with you if he really liked you so much?
2007-03-10 02:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cheating is always a difficult thing to contemplate. Why do some do it and others avoid at the risk of death. Statistics tell us that about 50% of all men have cheated and about 63% of all women, at some point during their life. I think that indicates human nature, not sin or weakness, so do what you want, but i don't ultimately think its the end of the world should either party have a little sex on the side.
Yes he is cheating, now leave him!!!
2007-03-10 10:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump Him! Cuz Chances Are, If He's Willing To Cheat On Her, He Will Probably Do It To You Too!
2007-03-10 02:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be brutal but:
get a new boyfriend.
This guy is a jerk. He HAS a girlfriend and he has been telling you that you are his girlfriend? Jerk. Doesn't matter how cute or funny or athletic he is - he is heartache after heartache for you.
He is not respecting you or his "other gf" or either of your feelings. Now is time to take a deep breathe and gather the courage to respect yourself enough to end this. You deserve someone who is honest and caring. This jerk is neither.
PS don't let him tell you he is changed. Don't go back to him if he drops his other girl. If he did it to her, with you - he will do it to you , with someone else.
2007-03-10 02:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Just Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line that should be drawn when you start dating guys and the fact they need to be up front about things before a relationship can get serious. He has a girlfriend already and is dating you at the sametime, You need to let him know that you don't agree with it and that he needs to let you know who he would rather be with you or her. He knows that he can not have two girls at the sametime, it just does not work out. If he wants the relationship with the girl that he started going out with then he needs to drop you and date her or drop her and date you, and don't give him a choice. being firm with about what is going on will get his attention and he will know that you are serious for sure.
2007-03-10 02:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling him your bf.
Let her know about it. But do it unemotional and just to look out for her. Don't act at all like you are doing it to break them up so you can have him. Because you don't want him, he'd just cheat on you later anyway.
2007-03-10 02:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very intelligently tell him you did not get involved with him knowing he was dating someone else.
do not allow him to take advantage of you to promote his own ego.
tell him you do not wish to see him anymore.
refuse his calls.
don't fall for any tricks such as; "let's go out one last time, I'm gonna be in your neighborhood and want to drop off a gift, I really want to introduce you to my aunt".
in other words anything to see you and try and persuade you to be with him; "she is NOT my girlfriend..I dumped her but she won't leave me alone". The list is long.
Some people will say anything to string others along and keep them at their beck and call.
Say no to all of his offers, suggestions
He has shown he is a liar and can't be trusted.
best wishes
2007-03-10 02:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by creole lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him. If he is cheating on her with you and you with her, then even if he decided to pick one of you to "stay with", he would still end up cheating. It's just the way it is. You need to find a man that will love you and ONLY you. and not to meantion...the trust just wouldn't be there if you two stuck it out...you would always wonder what he is doing and who he is doing it with...you would wonder if a "night out with the guys" is really just that. leave while you can....
2007-03-10 02:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU GET OUT OF THE SO CALLED RELATIONSHIP!!!! Believe me I've been the other GF and it hurt so bad when I found out. And don't be surprised if there isn't a couple more he is seeing. At least you found out and not waste anymore time on him.
2007-03-10 02:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by judy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋