my dad's gf always cleans our house like she lives there. she makes my bed a certain way i don't like. i ended making my bed 5 times cuz i didn't like how she did it, and she still couldn't get the hint! one time, she cleaned my room and i ended up looking for an hour for my chap stick! every time i throw something out, she puts it back in my room, even if i don't need it or it's broken. she moves stuff around so i can't find anything. she's super-sensitve, so how do i tell her to cut it out?
2007-03-10 02:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by Kel Kel 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you "super-clean" your room yourself, she'll have no reason to even enter your room. Do it just before she arrives and show her your work, explaining that you're now old enough to take care of your space and that, although you appreciate all her hard work (!!), you'd really rather do it yourself. Then keep on doing it!
2007-03-10 02:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by MomBear 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your dad is asking her to help out. you should ask him. I think it is nice that she is trying. You will discover as you grow up that people don't "get hints". You actually have to speak and communicate. Make your own bed before your leave each morning so she can't or if it really bothers you that your bed is made "wrong", tell her, but I think you are being a little bratty. After all, most kids make their own beds. She's trying to be considerate and make sure she doesn't throw out your stuff. Lots of kids would LIKE their dads to date someone like her.
2007-03-10 02:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and have a talk with your dad. Ask him afterwards if all 3 of you can sit down and talk about this.
It's nice of her to help out with keeping the house clean, but she doesn't live there and should really keep away from certain things. Your room being one of them.
2007-03-10 03:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know you want to keep your own room clean, but some habits are hard to break, you may have to live with it or you can talk to your Dad
2007-03-10 02:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to leave your room alone. Its your space, not hers, to do with what you like.
2007-03-10 02:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you appreciate her trying to help but, you would rather her not clean your room anymore.
2007-03-10 02:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by pamcake 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOAH I HAVE HEARD OF A NEAT FREAK BUT THIS IS LIKE OBSESSION COMPULSIVE DISORDER.
tell ur dad its freaking u out.
2007-03-10 02:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by the.journey.is.the.reward. C.P. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋