I think that she really thinks that she knows what she is doing. I mean sure, sometimes she's good but that's only sometimes. I want to tell her but i don't want to hurt her feelings or compromise (what people call) "her women hood." How should I do it and what should I say? Girls, what would be least offensive to you. I Reeeeealllly need advice!
2007-03-10 01:59:36 · 10 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her what you like.... guide her to what you want.
Say 'I like it when you do.....' and ask her what she would like you to do....
Have fun, that's the most important - I'm not sure what you mean by 'not pleasing' - is she doing something you don't like, then say!
Women want to please their men, and you would want to please her, so let her know.
2007-03-10 02:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by pineapplesally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you haven't been with her for very
long so this will make a difference.
Guide her and let her know the things you do
and ask her what she likes.
Myself I would prefer my man to be outspoken
and tell me straight. Its the 21st Century. Do you
ever watch porn together? This should give her
ideas, also the opportunity to explore each other. Talk to each other when you're in bed.
You sound so nice - I'm sure she won't be offended.
You are being a gent!!
2007-03-10 10:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never met a girl who doesn't please a guy. It just doesn't seem possible..lol..it's usually the guy who is at fault, not saying you are though. Just ask her if you guys could try something new. Like a new position or something like that. Don't tell her directly as that will hurt her feelings..and you never know, she might feel the same way about you dude. Maybe that is why your not getting the pleasure you want. And that is NOT good.
2007-03-10 10:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by RKO 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, be kind. You owe it to her to be honest. She may have been misled by partners in the past. If you two can be intimate, you should be able to talk frankly about it.
Maybe you're not compatible in that way - that's a possibility, too. Neither of you should compromise your sensuality to please one another. You need to speak honestly but gently to her and see what you can come up with.
2007-03-10 10:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by NEWTOME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don,t tell her. do things to spice up the relationship. for example better foreplay. have her wear something sexy like a cheerleading uniform. or try roll playing. ask her to pretend she is a stripper giving you a lap dance. it will make her more interested and you as well. it may or may not make her better in bed, but is will make your orgasm feel better so you don,t notice.
2007-03-10 10:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Riddles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not play with her any more. When you already found that she is not "fit" for you, clearly tell her the truth.
2007-03-10 10:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by Gautam B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her nicely what you like and show her. Also make sure you are pleasing her that maybe why she is not pleasing you :)
2007-03-10 10:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by thelmashirley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't, if you really like her, just buy her the book "He comes next" . she can take a hint. its a great book. i bought it for my self. and my husband loves me for it. you can find it at any book store try barnes and noble.
2007-03-10 10:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by lakarinasada 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give her male enhanement pills. if it works for guys, why shouldnt it work for girls
2007-03-10 10:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Breaker's Lax Rules!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be like my hubby, put on an adult video and say, can u please do that,
2007-03-10 10:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋