She wanted to meet me
She asked me to go to the movies with her
We have alot of fun together all the time
When we are together she laughs and smiles alo
We have alot in common
We can have fun just talking for hours
She has told me things that you wouldnt just tell anyone
She was here visiting from England for a month. She is 18 and I only knew her for 3 weeks. I really like her alot. I cannot stop thinking about her. When I first saw her I thought that I was not going to like her because I knew she smoked and she wasnt that good looking. I always told myself that I would never like a girl that smoked, but with her I dont care. Now I think she is the most beautiful person I have ever seen. We would talk for hours with her laughing and smiling. I wanted it to never end. Then the last week she was here I tried to see her as often as I could. The last night that I thought I was going to see her, the night before she left, she asked me to come the next day when she left.
2007-03-10 01:27:00 · 6 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When she left she hugged me and kissed me on the cheek and said that she will see me in the summer. I wasnt expecting her to kiss or hug me. It was a nice surpise. I will see her in the summer again, but it wont be in America or England. What do I do when I see her? I think that I love her. While she was here we talked about alot of things and she mentioned alot us seeing each other again. She also mentioned things about her exboyfriend, Do you think it was to let me know she doesnthave one? I dont know if I will ever see her again after the smmer what do I do? Maybe she will invite me to go to England I hope. I dont know.
2007-03-10 01:31:16 · update #1
I think you just discovered that the laws of attraction can sometimes be exactly what you thought they weren't.
Huh?
What I'm tyrying to say is that the person we often have as mr or ms, perfect is sometimes just that....an image. When faced with reality, the person we thought we'd be least attractive to can be the one that moves us the most. This happened to you. OK so she smokes....that's just a habit and one that can be broken...maybe not all that easily, but she can always stop smoking.
Sounds to me like you've met your soulmate.....at age 18. But that doesn't necessarily mean she'll be the only soulmate you'll ever have. I'm convinced we have more than one and we meet them as we need them at different points in our lives.
Enjoy this time....it sounds like it has all the makings of being one of the most important--certainly, one of the most memorable times in your life. True, the distance will be an issue. But telephones and e-mail have a way of bridging the miles.
And if (God forbid) you never see her again, the memories you have will ensure what you had together never ends. You'll always have memories.
So let this be a really nice lesson: love comes surprisingly in all packages and shapes and sizes.....and behaviors. It sometimes hits you between the eyes.....then has the nerve to pack it's bags and head back to England.
You'll survive this. At your age it's the best heartache you'll ever experience.
Young love is beautifully horrible.
2007-03-10 01:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its obvious thats shes into you , no girl is going to invest so much time into a guys she doesnt like . She may have been just trying to enjoy some company while she was here , but seeing that she asked you to come and seee her off , i think that it is more than that . You should try to keep in touch with her. If its ment to be , it will happen and it gives you a great reason to go over seas for a visit.
2007-03-10 09:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by femmegoddess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know for sure, is to tell her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same then you have made a great friend for life.
And if that is the case you will be able to move past how you feel, if you focus on your life and not spend so much time with her.
2007-03-10 09:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you too....most girls don't tell guys certain things unless they really like them and have a special relationship with them ...tell her how you feel about her and see what happens ...it sounds like you could end up in a relationship with her.....good luck!!
2007-03-10 09:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by leanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you a lot. and you seem to like her too. you should definately pursue her. talk to her on the phone and through e-mail since you guys don't live close. don't give up okay? good luck. =)
2007-03-10 09:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by nahtehc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AND YOU DIDNT GO?!?! omg what is wrong with you you just lost a good chick even though shes a smoker. find out where she lives and go get her now god damnit... get off your comp and go find her
2007-03-10 09:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by Breaker's Lax Rules!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋