ok my best friend has been goin out with her bf for 2 months, and for 1 month now, he calls me everynight just to talk, sometimes he wont even call my friend and call me instead. Weird huh? Im pretty sure he doesnt like me, cause we get into fights alot on the phone lol. But weird thing is i kinda like him alot too. So should i tell him to stop callen me or should i just keep talken?
2007-03-10 01:14:06 · 15 answers · asked by peaches and cream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he even gets a little perverted on the phone about stuff.
2007-03-10 01:14:59 · update #1
Make sure he knows you are just friends, (drop lines like, I'm glad we're friends; it's nice to have a friend who is a boy without all that pressure of romance etc) And maybe you should say, why don't you call
If he was your boyfriend and he was calling your friend every night to chat... would you like it? Encourage him to share his problems with his male friends or his girlfriend, and say you're fine with being mates, but it's a bit intense seeing as he is someone else's BF.
2007-03-10 01:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by pineapplesally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value your friendship with your "best friend" or if indeed she is your best friend,what do you think the right thing to do is?What would you expect or hope that she would do if the roles were reversed and she was talking to your boyfriend on the phone every night?And was starting to like him?I haven't met a guy out there that was worth losing a friendship over,have you?
2007-03-10 01:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
completely depends on you. Does your friend know about these calls? If so then most likely she'll be expecting it deep down. She'll be pissed i can almost guarentee it. If she doesnt know you need to ask yourself is he worth it?? If not stop the calls. If you feel he is worth the lose of your best friend then keep talking. Keep in mind, if the calls are a secret and she finds out it is possible to lose them both.
2007-03-10 01:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by tweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is maybe trying to get off with you or whatever you want to say. I would tell him to stop calling me, that is what a good friend would do. Ask him why he calls you so much and everything but not your friend who is his girlfriend. If his intentions are good, you can still talk to him, but I would tell him to not call me as much. Does your friend know?
2007-03-10 01:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this one really!!
If I were your best friend I would feel so betrayed
by the both of you. I suppose you would tell her
that there is nothing in it - but - you did say he gets
a bit perverted!!
If you think anything of your friend. Stop now before
it's too late.
2007-03-10 01:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's deeeep.
It sounds to me like you guys a made for each other. He's not for your bf. He's more of your type. On top of that, she would be hurt if she found out. Just stay neutral.
2007-03-10 01:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you like him,your best friend is going out with him.You should tell him to stop.Even though you get in fights,he still probably likes you.And when he gets perverted,that could be uncomfortable to tell your friend.And she would be mad at him.Hope this goes well.
2007-03-10 01:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by eVeRyBoDy SiNg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is kind of strange. it seems as if he likes you and you like him. if he fights with you over the phone that means he likes you. a lot of guys don't like to openly admit their feelings by being all mushy with the girl they like. you need to talk to your best friend about this because you guys talking on the phone like that every night seems like cheating on your best friend to me. you should also discuss this with the guy, ask him what he feels about you. good luck. =)
2007-03-10 01:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by nahtehc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither you or your friend needs someone like that. Don't answer the phone when he calls. And if you do , then tell him you are busy and can't talk.
2007-03-10 01:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could have your telephone quantity replaced right into a private quantity so as that they cant discover out what your telephone quantity is and that i wouldnet answer the telephone in the trail of the evening as its in all probability them or i could record the telephone calls and what they're doing and enable the police pay attention them
2016-10-01 21:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋