i need some advice on girl trouble?

Question

I recently decided to move out of state, just been very unhappy with my current living situation. The girl i am in love with loves me back, but just as a friend. I think very small part reason im moving is to get over her and move along, but by no means is the whole reason. When i told her she got so mad, she yelled at how stupid and fast my decision is, started to cry, and slammed door in my face.. Does it sound like she may feel the same way about me or just a typical response? Its been a huge cat and mouse game for a year now and really been messin with my head.. and my heart. Should i just fold my cards now? i just hate leaving on such a bad note..

Answer 1

does she know u like her?have you talked about it? and how sure are you really that you want to move out? maybe she's mad cause she really likes you as a friend and doesnt want to see you go? or maybe she likes you THAT way and will be heart broken? either way, ask yourself this. "if she likes me back the way i like her, will i change my decision of moving away?"

Answer 2

Here is the best advice I can give. I don't know how much time you have before you leave, but try to talk to her. Make several attempts if you have to, and if there is no avail, then maybe starting over isn't such a bad idea. But if you have a cell phone, don't change the number for at least a month, to give her time to make contact with you after you are gone and maybe realizes what she has lost is such a good friend, or possibly something more. After that, go on a few dates, and go out and have some fun. You deserve at this point. There is more fish in the sea.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Yea your in a tough spot. However she has let you know that your in friends mode with her. If she was really interested in you you wouldnt be playing games. See girls make it easy when they like you and wouldnt be messing with your head or heart. If she wanted to be with you more than anything she would be moving in with you! She was genuinely hurt because like you said your one of her close friends. I say move on start your new life and get things back in order and if she doesnt support that your better off with out the hurt.

Answer 4

ok! I'm not sure if she would still talk to you!
but if she does be straight with her! tell her how you feel everything! tell her you can't keep doing this! and you need her in your life and if she is will to take a chance! if not let her go!
it would be hard! I did it I move away from my exbf to get over him! and it's hard!
put all your cards on the table! it would hurt if she doesn't want to take the chance. but you have to live! you cant keep living her her shadow! or the dream of you too!

Answer 5

You dont could desire to tell females i'm taken so i won't be able to date you. purely make it clean you at the instant are not involved by using not reacting to their flirtations. additionally why does she prefer your dating to be secret? Is she emberrassed of you or has very shielding mothers and fathers. the two way you 2 could desire to discover the thank you to ensure explanation why it is going to stay secret simply by fact it somewhat is not very healthful on your dating. have confidence me i admire this guy in spite of if simply by fact my mothers and fathers might approve human beings being jointly whilst hell freezes it brought about stress that i don't sense I could take care of in a dating. We form of have a woman and the Tramp element occurring in any case simply by this stress we drifted aside. As for you being quiet they in all probability like that given which you at the instant are not spewing stupid machismo stuff to sound manly and could think of you're an excellent listener that's a plus.

Answer 6

30 ways to keep your girl happy by C.W. Wiggins


1. When she asks how she looks, shrug and say "could be better." This will keep her on her toes, and girls love that.

2. Never hold her hand. This can be interpreted as a sign of weakness. If she grabs your hand, squeeze hers really hard until she cries (this will impress her by showing her what a strong man you are).

3. Once a month, sneak up on her from behind and knock her over. Girls are like dogs; they love to be roughed up.

4. Call her in the middle of the night to ask if she's sleeping. If she is, say "you better be." Repeat this 4 or 5 times until morning. This will show her you care.

5. When she is upset about something, suggest to her that it might be her fault. This will pave the way for her own personal improvement, and every girl needs some improvement.

6. Recognize the small things, as they usually mean the most. Then when she's sleeping, steal all her small things and break them, because jewelry is for *******.

7. If you're talking to another girl, make sure she's looking. When she is, stare into her eyes, mouth the words "**** you" and grab the other girl's ***. Girls love competition.

8. Tell her you're taking her out to dinner. Drive for mile so she thinks it's going to be really special. Then take her to a burning tire yard. When she starts to get upset, tell her you were just kidding and now you're really going to take her to dinner. Then drive her home. When she starts crying and asks why you would do something like that, lean over and whisper very quietly into her ear "...because I can."

9. Introduce her to your friends as "some chick." Women love those special nicknames.

10. Play with her hair. Play with it HARD.

11. Warm her up when she's cold...and not by giving her our jacket, because then you might get cold. Rather, look her in the eye and say "if you don't stop complaining about the cold right now, you're going to be complaining about a black eye." The best way to get warm is with fear.

12. Take her to a party. When you get there, she'll have to go to the bathroom (they always do). Leave immediately. Come back right when the party is dying and yell at her the whole way home for ditching you all night.

13. Make her laugh. A good way to do this is if she has a small pet. Kick the pet. I always find stuff like that funny...why shouldn't girls?

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. When she's fast asleep, wait 10 minutes, then jump up and scream in her ear. Repeat until she goes home and you can use your arms for more important things (like basketball).

16. If you care about her, never ever tell her. This will only give her self-confidence, then you can never turn her into the object she deep down desires to be.

17. Every time you're in her house, steal one of her shoes, earrings or anything else that comes in pairs. Only take one of the pair. This way, she'll go crazy.

18. Take her out to dinner. Right when she's about to order, interrupt and say "no, she's not hungry." Make her watch you eat. Girls love a guy that speaks for her.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then punch her in the face. Girls love a spontaneous guy.

20. Give her one of your t-shirts, and make sure it has your smell on it (but not a sexy cologne smell...a bad smell. You know what I'm talking about).

21. When it's raining, keep asking her if she's crying. She'll say "no, it's just the rain." Ten minutes later, turn to her and just scream at her to stop crying. Girls like a tough man.

22. Titty twisters and plenty of them.

23. If you're listening to music, and she asks to hear it, tell her no. This way she'll think you're mysterious.

24. Remember her birthday, but don't get her anything. Teach her that material objects arent important. The only thing that's important is that she keeps you happy, and your happiness is the greatest present she can ever get.

25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it. Then, next time you know she's coming over on a trash day, leave the trash can open and have the present visibly sticking out of the can.

26. If she's mad at you for not calling her when you say you will, promise her that you will call her at a certain time of the day. This will make sure that she waits by the phone. Tell her when you call that you're going to tell her a special surprise. Now she'll be really excited, then don't call.

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27. When your in bed cuddling, fart, then hold her head under the covers. Girls love sharing personal and private things.

28. Open the door for her (pretending like your a gentelman), Then as she walks by, smack her *** and push her through the door. This will create cognitive dissonance in her.

29. Make her a nice dinner, then pass her a salt shaker which you have unscrewed the cap of. Then as she pours salt all over her dinner, point and laugh at her. Keep eating, occasionally looking up and chuckling at her.

30. 'accidentally' call her sisters name out in bed. Then say, "Thats what I'm calling you from now on."

Answer 7

Make sure she understands your reasons and is willing to let you go.
She may have strong feelings for you, so clear that up with her too.

Answer 8

I sounds as if she cares more about you than she is willing to admit. If you really love her, I'd give her one last try.

Answer 9

really to me it sounds that she is un shure of what her true feelings for you are.....time apart would do you both well to think whats really going on .....but dont you think that moving out of state is overdoing it??? really.....anyhow good luck!!!

Answer 10

dont go without tellin her how you feel shell get all messed up and you she deff likes you no doubt so talk to her