he's introduced me to his relatives and says he wants to marry me he works and i don't . hes never given me a present even on vals day . he complains about his problems to me one after the other but i don't complain . is he selfish or what ? i feel taken for granted
2007-03-10 00:53:53 · 7 answers · asked by frightened 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can he afford to buy presents?
If he can, then why does he choose not to do so.
You certainly can't afford presents, since you don't work, therefore don't earn money; maybe he wanted to protect you from feelings of resentment.
You should pause and reflect on the reasons he wants to marry you; and YES you can fall in deep love within minutes let alone months.
Is getting presents all this is about - if so you're pretty shallow.
2007-03-10 01:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women would say he has given u the best present a man can give a woman 'love'.but to me giving other persents is a sign of his love. it does not have to be something expensive. girl i totally understand how u feel and think he is taking u for granted.maybe u seem to be alway around when he need some to vent to and thats all he see u as. i wonder what he would do if u get a job and is no longer available 24 hrs a day?
2007-03-10 09:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by macy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm sounds fishy here to me. First off 5 months is to early to say you are in love. You are only seeing the surface, you haven't had time to know the core of him. Second he sounds like a very negative person , who never finds anything right in the world. Can you live with that all the time? Lastly, if you feel you are being taken for granted, then probably you are. Go with your instincts.
2007-03-10 09:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me asif this person has some issues that you dont know about that could be easily settled or resolved by marriage . they say that when you are dating someone, and you notice that they are alway complaining about stuff, then they are a kind of like " blame it on the world " person , and this problem will only get worse through marriage.... it isnt something that i would openly throw myself into , but on the other hand , maybe he really does love you .
if you are not sure wether or not you are in love with him , then have a talkwith him about it ... if he is as in love with youas you think , he will have no problem waiting until you are ready to get married. ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT !
2007-03-10 09:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by ashxox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I don't think you love someone after just five months. Sounds like he's just pushy if you ask me, and could be controlling later on...
2007-03-10 08:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Dusk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe humility
or it may a denial of a responsibility
2007-03-10 08:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a miser. Stay away.
2007-03-10 09:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋