What do a girl have to do........ To please a guy?

Question

WHAT DO A GIRL HAVE TO DO TO PLEASE A GUY THE REASON IS BECAUSE MY BABY SISTER IS ONLY 15 AND IS ABOUT TO GET HERSELF IN DEEP TROUBLE SHE SAYS HER BOYFRIEND SAID IN ORDER FOR THEM TO HAVE AN COMPLETE RELATIONSHIP SHE HAS TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM..... I TOLD HER IT WASNT WORTH IT BUT SHE SAYS THAT SHE REALLLY LIKES THIS GUY AND IF SHE DONT GIVE IT UP SHE WILL LOSE HIM ..... NOW WHAT DO I HAVE TO TELL HER TO INFORM HER THAT SHE WILL GET IN MORE TROUBLE THAN JUST LOSING A GUY

Answer 1

Your question title and your explanation are directly contradictory. What a girl has to do to please a guy is have lots of sex with him. However you are also asking for advice on how to convince your sister not to have sex with her boyfriend.

Whichever, just make up your mind.

Answer 2

1) Tell her that even if she gives in to him, she'll also stand to lose him. No guarantee he'll stick around & you know what, I don't think he will.
2) She's only 15 & she can get pregnant. He'll run if that happens cos he's definitely not the responsible type. If he was, he won't say these things to her. What will she do then?
3) She can get all kinds of sexually transmitted diseases or AIDS from him.
4) If you live in a state where having sex when you're underage (below 16) is a crime, he can go to jail. Check this first. Use that to your advantage.

Personally, I think these two should be kept apart as far as possible. This guy is no good. She's only 15 for God's sake.
He's trouble. Bad for her. And he fully intends to take advantage of her gullibility & use her for his own desires. He does not have her best interests at heart. Be a big sis and do what you must. Good luck.

Answer 3

Tell her straight up it is her life and she makes her own decisions but explain to her. there are consequence for all actions. If he cant accept her feelings and be willing to live with them, then she needs to stop this now. If she doesn't want to have sex then she shouldn't and if he gave her an ultimatum for something like this. Then tell her to just imagine what could happen later on. If the dude doesn't respect her boundaries then kick his but to the curb. Anyways she's 15 she has a lot of time left to seek out a real man not some boy that's gonna throw a temper tantrum when he doesn't get his way.

Answer 4

Tell her she's still too young to be having sex! Gosh, if this guy wants it so much to have a "complete relationship" with your sister, then he's pathetic! I mean, if your sister have sex with this guy, then she's about to take a risk. She may end up pregnant and maybe in the end, the guy would leave her because he doesn't want to take his responsibility as a dad. So why don't you let her choose? Don't have sex with him and be left by him or have sex with him and still be left by him?

Answer 5

if the guy truly cares for her then sex is something that he will wait for --- the guy is only after the sex and not truly interested in your sister as a person and he will break her heart when he leaves --- and he will even if he gets the sex --- if he cares he will stay even if he does not get sex --- im sorry your sister may not listen and look back with sorrow at this time --- whatever happens she MUST always use protection --- disease and pregnacy can be so easily stopped --- and he will probably say "if you love me you dont need protection --- it feels better"

Answer 6

tell her tht the guy she is with is a p r i c k. an if he really cared for her he wudnt pressure her into doing anything and certainly wudnt say if u dnt have sex me i will dump ya(or sum at along those lines). also tell her tht guys come an go an tht there is a better guy out there for her who will respect and care about her enough not to pressure her or give her an ultimatum

hopefully i gave u sum good advice. its up to u to protect your sister an im sure tht u will do everything in your power to do tht.

good luck

Answer 7

Tell her since she is going to lose him anyway, go ahead and give it up.This way she can lose all her self esteem, maybe become pregnant or get a disease, and be known as a whore to all his buddies.If he loved her he would MARRY her FIRST BEFORE having sex.Tell her you can PROVE he doesnt love her and will NOT stay with her.Tell her to tell him no sex unless you marry me first, if he gets mad then he doesnt love her,if he says ok I respectthat and STILL tries to get in her undies he is just telling her what he knows she WANTS to hear.How do I know this?Im a guy, grew up with guys and know guys,all kinds of guys.Tell her itll hurt losing him. However;Itll hurt a lot WORSE losing her virginity(if she hasnt yet) and herself esteem along WITH that low life punk.He isnt intrested in a life long committment with her, he just wants sex.Sex will not keep him when so many other girls are willing to give him a sample of their candy in the big candy store of life.

Answer 8

She'll lose him anyway, so what's the point? If he is that self-centred does she think that he will support her and stay with her if anything happens... if she gets pregnant... or sick?

Maybe she needs to turn around and ask why is this guy even worth giving up her dignity, self respect, and freedom of choice.

Answer 9

Pleasing is sexual. what u want is to help her not do anything she is not ready for, as a friend i would continue to advise and give her good reason this relationship is shallow and that he doesnt love her for asking such a thing as a excuse to dimiss the relationship!

Answer 10

tell her to use a condom if she does. She should wait though. If he won't be with her for that then he doesn't really care for her much. Maybe she could give him a hand job or let him feel her up or finger her, but tell her to wait on sex.