how do you tell someone you cant be around them because of you feel about them when they might feel the same?

Question

i like this girl but her ex is still in her head and i find myself hurting me because of how much i am around her and want to hold her so i think i am going to tell her i need to stay away from you in order to keep being your friend but theres a strong part of me and others have told me that they think as well as i do that she does feel for me but she cant do anything because of how shes still dwelling over her ex any advice please help

Answer 1

maybe you have to tell her how you feel. and say to her that the boys in her head is her ex so why she keep remembering this guy it is not worth