i dont get along too well with my mom anymore...she gets soo annoyed at little things and i get annoyed at stuff like that too...is this normal for a 13 year old girl?
2007-03-10 00:41:08 · 14 answers · asked by vrules 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm 14 and I also get annoyed with my mom sometimes, and I know she gets annoyed with me too, so I guess that's normal. I suggest you spend some quality time with your mom and tell her your problem and see if there's something wrong with your relationship with her.
2007-03-10 00:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by (>.<) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, it happens in more households than not. Girls especially. Mothers see themselves in their daughters and remember what it was like at that age and many times try to shield their own from the problems they had at that age. Of course the daughters buck the authority wanting to experience for themselves thinking they are more grown up than their mothers at that age. Work with your Mom, compromise on some issues, talk to her about things, don't leave her using her imagination for that is where so many teens go wrong, parents have huge imaginations and generally it's not a pretty picture unless they are better informed of the situations.
2007-03-10 09:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom nagged at U not because she do not like U. She is actually asking for your attention. She needs U to be close to her. She is afraid to lost U. That is why she is over reacting towards U. Do not hate your mother. Try another approach. Try to be at home during your free time and talk to her. Tell her your feelings, your expectation, and may be share your personal matter with her. Help her do house chores. The key factor to happy family is bonding, communication, share and care. Try it now. U feel the difference in a matter of time.
2007-03-10 09:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by atbt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can be normal for most people. Part of adolescence is learning to rely on yourself and not have people be in charge of you. Your mom might find this hard to adjust to since she's been in charge before. I would try doing special things to show your mom that you still love her even though you're not going to be her "little girl". And ask for more responsibilities so that she realizes you're going to be a mature person that she can trust to make your own decisions.
2007-03-10 08:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, you are trying to expand your world. You are trying to become an adult, but it will take you years and years to achieve this goal. Try to have some patience with your mother who is try to raise you to become the best person you can be. She knows what you are going through, and she is trying to keep you safe. Her fears are drugs, pregnancy, and other dangers that you just don't see. Trust your mom. She has your best interests in mind. In the news this last week, 2 adults and 2 boys were charged for giving 2 girls lethal amounts of alcohol. Both girls died. They wanted to get the girls so drunk to rape them.
2007-03-10 09:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! It's perfectly normal, I used to get annoyed with my mom all the time. Like, she didn't understand, couldn't get it, and was annoying me a lot! I used to annoy her too...I would try and tell her something but she couldn't understand then I'd say forget it and she get mad..
2007-03-10 09:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by ilyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was a 13 yr old guy once
and yes in teenage things like this are normal
its the hormones that make ur mood swings so dont worry just let things happen and ull soon get over it with age
2007-03-10 08:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by rocky s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. You're growing up. But if you waste all your time sweating the small stuff, you're going to miss out on a lot of living.
2007-03-10 09:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. she's trying to adjust to your need for independence and no longer being a child. and you are learning about your ability to start being more independent and beginning to be an adult.
it's all just normal! just try to ignore the little stuff where you can and talk to her about your thoughts and need for some more independence etc.
good luck.
2007-03-10 09:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no teenage girl gets along with their mom lol im sure u will be able to work things out
2007-03-10 16:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by *MaNgO* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋