I'm 15 and I want to move out of my mom's house into my Aunts house. Can I do that?

Question

I mean at this age can I? or do I have to wait? The reason I want to move is because I really REALLY hate my mom. My mom starting hanging out with different people and started acting like she's better than me, she manipulates me to tell her all of my secrets because she is the "Only and Perfect" person to tell. But when I ask her wut she is gonna do or somethin, "it's none of your business" is wut she says, and i just feel... sort of USED just so she can know about everything I do. And then when I ask her if I can do something, she goes and turns a secret i confidentally trusted and told her about, AGAINST me! like the first time I ever went to the movies with a guy, I had sex with him, i mustered up courage and told her cuz i wanted her to know she can trust mebut she now wont ever let me go by myself anymore. I'm usually the one doing chores! im so tired of it that one time i peirced my own nose and i just last night took all of my own braces off. and i wana live wit someone else

Answer 1

Seems to me you need to tell someone at your school and see if they can help you. Or call your local Department of Family and Children Services and tell them you problems, but to me I think you two can work this out with therapy.

Answer 2

Trust is something earned not given lightly. You have shown that you want to open that door with your mom by telling her about your date. Now you need to give her some time to adjust to this. The problem seems that you are trying to hurt your mom by doing things you know are against her rules and morals. such as sex on the first date, taking your own braces off which she had spent a great deal of money to get them for you, and because you did this it is no longer insured. It is a lot of money wasted. As far as moving into your aunts house, I believe you need your moms permission. What makes you think your aunt will allow this type of behavior? She may be cool to you right now.... but once she becomes responsible for you things will change. You really need to get a hold of yourself and grow up. If you keep heading down the path you are right now you will never have a decent relationship with anyone because every time you get made at them... you will do something stupid to "punish" them. Sooner or later you will have pushed everyone who loves you away and may end up all alone. Perhaps a school counselor, pastor, aunt, uncle,or even a friends mom is someone you can talk to. But please talk to a trusted adult before it is to late. Good luck kiddo.

Answer 3

Well, you could become an emancipated minor if a judge thinks
you are worldly enough to survive on your own.

Alternately, you could try to get your aunt to convince your mother
to give you up to her - or if not that, get your aunt to have your mother
declared an unfit parent.

However, you might just be able to ask both people and do it
with no legal implications at all. That might be far simpler, if both
people are willing.

Answer 4

You admit that you do 'bad' things and don't follow her rules....so, why should life be pleasant for you???

Don't teach yourself to run away now...cuz it won't work later on in life. You are 15...a child! When you are 18, move out and wreck your life on your own. Congrats to your mom on making rules to keep you from getting knocked up!

Life ain't fair hun....get used to it....you got another 60-80 years of it!

Answer 5

Advice from me, never say that your mom is bad and you hate her, even if she is.

For sure you can go, I know people who did this when they were 12-13.

Good Luck

MAKE TEA NOT WAR

Answer 6

you' your mom & your aunt should discuss this . if this is not an alternative check with a counselor if all else fails your aunt could adopt or emancipation of a minnor

Answer 7

your parents would have to approve, for you to go Anywhere