Its been a year and yet the feeling is still so deep....WHY?

Question

when you find yourself in love & you have not seen them do the feelings go away ?.It will be 1 year this month . No communication , ....is it just me who feels the loss. We were together in heart & mind but not married ....I don't know what we were!

Answer 1

I feel the feeling is very deep because you are really and truley in love and even though you have not seen this person you still love them very much. This is actually a good thing and positive. This means the feelings are real and lasting. Are you wanting to keep these feelings for this person or are you wanting to get over them? Heart and mind and soul can be much deeper then just marriage hon... An emotional commitment of the heart can be VERY deep and lasting. Have you contacted this person and told them of your feelings and how strong they still are or do you have to let this person go? If you cannot be with this person again letting go of these feelings will be very hard and you may have to seek counseling and help to do so if need be. Also try starting to date again and see other people if you can do that yet. Buat if there is any hope of getting back with this person if you both are available then go for it and do all that you can to try and restore things.

Answer 2

we do sometimes have such a connection with someone that even after many years they are still in our every day thoughts. we often feel a loss, but time has passed and the chance that they are still there in the same place, and available is not very good, as time passes and so do opportunities. sometimes it is best to just cherish their memory.

Answer 3

Maybe the dudes member got stuck way deep in there.

Answer 4

Don't think too much about it and learn to relax. Do things you enjoy. Time will heal all pains.

Answer 5

This too shall pass!