As I was trying to leave the house one day my son told me that his friend needed to tell me something. Thinking it was something trivial I tried to put the little girl off until I came back . My son insisted that she really needed to tell me now so I asked her what it was. She then told me that her Papa (Mom's live-in boyfriend of 5 years) licks her bottom! I was shocked and after much thought decided I would go to her house and talk to her Mom about what she had said. The mom seemed to think basically that it was "made up" because she was mad at him or her. I believed the little girl and more or less told the Mom either she did something about it or I would. A few days later I was told the girl had not been to school and that "HE" was still there! I then called DHS and reported it. She was removed from the home for 1 year and nothing has ever been done to this guy and I want to know why?!?!? He needs to pay for what he did to this little girl. Please help!
2007-03-09 23:45:30 · 12 answers · asked by byotch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The fact that she was removed from the house is a great start. However, it takes a great deal more evidence to have him jailed. It is entirely possible that the DA is still gathering the facts to ascertain whether or not the evidence is enough to get a conviction. Give it time and see what happens. While justice is pertinent, the most important thing is her safety.
2007-03-10 00:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he should pay. And unfortunately, within society today it is apparent that one can do whatever abuse to a child, even murder and get away with it. We need to start changing the laws. We as a society do not value our children. The statistics are as high as one in every 5 girls will be raped or molested by the time they turn age 18. God bless****
2007-03-09 23:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe wheels are turning in the background that you dont know about? If the little girl was removed from the house then obviously some attention and action was taken.
2007-03-09 23:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have to be able to PROVE it happened, its the little girls word against his.Plus momma would end up in hot water for allowing it to go on.She wanted her boyfriend more than her daughter to have a happy healthy life.The girl needs not to be put back with the mother.Dss has a tendancy to do the opposite along without our dysfunctional court systems.Thank you for being brave.Talk to the D.A. and see if theres anything he/she can do tho.
2007-03-09 23:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations for stepping up, most people wouldn't get involved. Thankfully you were there to see that she was protected when her mother wouldn't.
The legal system isn't perfect, depending on the case load, it can take a long time to be resolved. You did the right thing, now it's time for you to move on and let the legal system worry about him. It's up to them to punish him, he's no longer your problem.
Good luck.
2007-03-09 23:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 00:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u did the right thing but thats all u can do i know u r prob sick inside about it but at least u know she is safe 4 now
2007-03-10 01:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God Bless you for acting appropriately.
2007-03-10 13:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank you for speaking up. be patient, wheels are turning on
this matter, it's only a matter of time.
2007-03-09 23:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by dgreer58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats sad i must condone you for helping her! dont give up on that poor little girl!! thanks for caring, too many people out there dont.
2007-03-10 02:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by dee_the_genius 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋