as far as I can remember, I could'nt make friend whit girls, dont know why.
It was o.k untill I went to school. I live in Iran and schools are not complex. (boys and girls schools are seprate) every thing started from that when I go to school. we were 3. me and 2 other boys.when I went to school I was 6 but continue my relationships with other two while I became 9. then we leave together and I left alone with girls at school. at first I didnt pay attention that I dont have any BEST frinds for myself. I was friend with everyone.so now I'm 16 and I really want to be a best friend with a girl that I like her more than everyone. but really dont know haw to say. u know with boys its esear to make friend as I have one alredy. but somethings are not match with boy and girl. I realy dont know haw to start a conversation with a girl like her. she is my friend only but I want to improve my friendship.
thats why I really feel lonely without any female friends at all. help me what to do.
2007-03-09 23:37:45 · 12 answers · asked by Cayanne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Start small; like asking her if she wants some help with her homework and other small things like that. You aren't content and you probably won't be until you have a female friend. It's natural. But friendships can take a second to form or a lifetime and you can't push them. Good Luck!
2007-03-12 04:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my suggest is u could try find something that interesting to play with ur friend. not always need a word to have fun with ur friend. juz find some activities that both of u can do it and making more close each other. i know, sometimes is not easy to ask someone to like u, but u shouldn't worry, and no reason to feel lonely. there always someone else who wants to be ur friend. be open and feel ur days with something more usefull and enjoy it. be fun and likeable person, people will notice and they might chance their mind and want to be ur friend, right? :-) good luck and be joyful all the time. smile...
2007-03-10 08:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your life sucks and that is for sure. Especially in Iran with a crazy president there. Well, it will be another 100 years before your kids, kids, will be able to make friends easier, and where women are not looked upon as slaves.
2007-03-10 07:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, im 16 too. im from malaysia. i not really good at this, but maybe you can start with someone you think ok. you can start with school stuff like homework, or you can ask her to do some stuff together and the most important one is be your self, dont pretend to be someone else ok, gud luck
2007-03-10 07:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mind music man! you don't have to be best friends with someone who doesn't want to be with you. Frienship needs to grow, especially if you want to be BEST friends. Just give it time. Me and my best friens didn't even realize we were besties till a time came. Don't worry.
2007-03-10 09:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Push away from the Internet!
2007-03-10 07:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does someone with NO BRAIN always have to put their little pennies' worth in on these questions (MUSIC man)???
Start with someone you can trust, and then make friends with them around you. It helps to have someone with you when you are making friends.
2007-03-10 07:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Just call me sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wel, u don't have nothing to do because I think dat wat lyf is and god gave it to u, so I think u should accept dat!!!!!!!
mhe, wen I was elementary I had very many friends, I had a bestfriends too..... but wen I went to highskul I don't ever had a good friends and also bestfriend!!!
all my old friends and bestfriends we're far each other.
I know if wat is the feelings w/out a bestfriend that always there for u!!!!! it was sad, bored and lonely.......
but god gave that to me so I try to challenge it!!!!
it's better if u will not always think dat, but thinks ur future and challenge all wat god gave to u!!!!!!
because I know it is a good challenge to us, we can stand alone without friend!!!!!!!
2007-03-10 08:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by crazy inluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the best you can be,,,invite her over or go somewhere together....if they don't want to be your friend, then they aren't worth it...
2007-03-10 07:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly cause Nobody Likes you SHUCKS!
2007-03-10 07:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♂ РҰЯӨζξ ♂♫ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋