I strongly feel me and my girlfriend are very different persons, i m introvert, self centered and very loyal kind for person. She is extrovert, talkative, easy going.
she is the most importent thing for me, and i expect her to give me most importence but its not the case, that thing upsets me always. I m ready to compromise a lot of things for her, vice versa is not true.
now a days i m very tense as my expectations are not fulfilled, i get angry and thoughts of leaving her keep coming in my mind, i think if she continues to be like that then we wont be happy as a married couple.
i have talked to her, she says that will try her best but i dont think she is going to change or i m going to change.
should i break up with her for sake of our future?
before meeting her i always though of marring a non working woman, but after meeting her i accepted her even though she is a working girl......but now it appears i wont be happy with her after marriage.
2007-03-09 23:23:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who knows she may be just what you need in life she can open doors where you cant and you can open doors where she cant. Just stop being joules and look at yourself as the best and she will to . Why break up with somebody that is so impotent to you just because she has the gift to gab? Stop feeling so inferior about yourself
2007-03-09 23:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u have already thought about break up, do u really see this relationship going anywhere ? Not just that, r u sure u love her.........I mean u have so many expectations in return for whatever u do for her. I didnt know it happens in love, all these years I considered it to be a part of business. I am not saying she shouldn't do anything for u or u should not have expectations from her. You should, after all she is ur girl but then why put a condition for those expectations to be fulfilled.
U guys are so true to urself & thats what u need to do for each-other. Maybe u should separate for sometime & let things around u guys settle down. Maybe the picture gets more clear once the sand is still. Try looking for solution & not total destruction. Just make sure there are no compromises involved because later u guys are gonna so regret it & it will just make a not so good relationship a miserable one.
2007-03-10 08:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you both have very different personalities but this could actually work out well for you. In our house it is like this and it seems to balance out our whole lives. It takes work compromise and unconditional love to make it but it bonds you strong. Plus there isn't much room for boredom because there is always something to discuss, do, or laugh about. You also have to have a sense of knowing that life isn't always going to go the way you planned and that this person that you love comes in and changes the way the world spins and now you can choose to spin with it or not
2007-03-10 01:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy now, you will not have a happy marriage. Marriage is all about compromise, if that is an issue now, it will not get better. You should try finding someone with whom you are compatible. Someone who values the same things you do and wants the same things from marriage that you want. You need love, communication, respect, friendship, honesty, trust and loyalty to make a marriage work.
2007-03-09 23:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright man, check this out, if you feel as though she doesn't appreciate, love, and respect, and accept you for who you are, then you should end your relationship with her ASAP. Don't waste time on things like that. Remember the old saying, there's plenty of fish out there in the sea, don't chase after the one that got away. Trust me when I tell you this, God has someone special just for you. When you least expect that special someone, she will come and change your life for the better.
2007-03-09 23:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by jhollarules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cannot expect anybody to change, even u can't easily change ur nature unless u really try.
in ur case, u both r not going to change. u r too posessive abt ur girl whereas she is a freebird. this won't workout.
2007-03-09 23:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by purna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up if you dont feel happy becuse of her additude break up. i have a freind that acts just like you gf. just go for it if she dosent want you to break up owell if your not happy with this girl go for it
2007-03-09 23:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by sabrina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r right, u SHOULD break up, its good that u felt it before marriage.
2007-03-09 23:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by anwesha08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋