children questions - not for people who are sentimental about them?

Question

this is a serious question i know i will get violations from cry babies who can not handle criticism
for these people i say 'get a life'


why do people with children expect special treatment?
what favours do they think they have done in bringing children into this hell-hole?
mothers complain about not holding doors for them, parking in their bay, why people dont give them way?
we are paying taxes for your children, isnt that enough?

why should we? we didnt decide to have their kids
we didnt decide to take take the responsibility and yet they feel we should all thank them on our knees

why, most of them are brats anyway
dont have to like my question then dont answer please

people who have mentioned that they pay for their kids and dont resort to funds
i am not talking about you guys

read the question carefully
it does not refer to people who take responsibility for their family
please read before you answer

its not for everyone

martinshetland i mean you especially

thanks to some of you who had the kind understanding and the decency to answer i appreciate you replies

Answer 1

I'm 14 and go to a comprehensive school in Middlesex. The other 14 year old 'children' here drink, smoke and are even expecting children themselves. These troblesome spoilt brats are responsible for their own bloody problems, and their parents can take their fair share of responsibility too. Lot's of parents mooch of the goverment (when they are perfectly able to work) to pay for their disrespectful offspring's new trainers every week. I didn't know that mothers complain about not holding doors for them and their children, but that would explain that disgusted look they give me afterwards. During WW2, lots of mothers single handedly brought up children, they didn't have cars and there weren't much people around to hold doors for them and their children, they didn't complain and time was rougher for them. My mum never complained about those stupid little things, and both my parents always pay taxes. I'm grateful to you for giving me a chance for a proper education with your taxes, thank you.

Answer 2

Cry babies i think you are the one having a rant so does that not make you a cry baby? I have children and i don't expect special treatment and why would you park in there bays if you don't have children? Are you disabled if your not do you grudge them bays also? Its just down to decency people who are don't mind walking that little bit extra to make someone with a child get parked closer and have extra room to open there doors it harder to fasten a child safely into a car seat with 1 hand cause the other is holding the door making sure it doesn't hit the car next to you! I think at the end of the day you are the one who needs to 'get a life'!!

Answer 3

AT LAST..someone who thinks like me.I always park in 'mother and children' parking spaces in a supermarket(but NEVER in a disabled space)...there is more room.Why do they bring their brats to the supermarkets anyhow...they scream,sing,run around..basically a bloody nuisance.Dare you say anything to their 'little angels'?..only if you want a string of abuse back.You might think your brat's tantrums are cute..I don't.
I am also p1ssed off by these people being given (our) money each time they produce another sprog.I think family allowance or child credit or whatever they call these handouts should be given only to the first child(or at most to the first two). If they had to pay for their own children many wouldn't have as many.
Well done for bringing this up.
I realise not ALL children are badly behaved..some parents discipline them..but many try to reason with them then if they don't listen they give in to them..their philosophy is"Everyone likes kids,whatever they do..they have a right to squeal and shout as they like".WRONG!!!!

Answer 4

I feel the same way..i am 15 and my mother is pregnant and she doesn't like the fact that theres parking spaces for ppl with children...and she doesn't like people being nice to her just because shes got a child...she and i both think that if you decide to have a child then it's your responsbility to look after it. if people are nice to you just because you have a child then your child is going to grow up thinking that the world is a nice place and it isn't the sooner they realise that the more prepared they are going to be. Most kids are spoilt brats because there parents scrounge money of the government and put it into what the kid wants and not what the kid needs!

Answer 5

WOW, you are one cynical b@#$%^& ! I don't know anyone who has a child who expects special treatment because of the fact. Holding doors (for example) for anyone, is just a common courtesy, not something we, as parents expect. Yes our hands might be full with a child's hand, purse, diaper bag (dependant on age) or anything else, but we certainly do not expect you to hold the door for us, we are usually surprised if you do because in today's society, most people are simply too focused on " ME, ME, ME"! and not paying any attention to any thing or anyone around them.

As far as taxes go, someone paid taxes when you were born so you could go to a good school, feel safe in your neighborhood, etc. Should we not have for you? What makes you so special and not anybody else? Sounds like you were more than a brat when you were young, I'd hate to see what your parents went through trying to raise you. I feel sorry for them.

You can kiss my a@#.

Answer 6

I have 2 children and I don't expect or deserve a thank you from anyone - I take full responsibility for my children - I chose to have them because I was financially and emotionally capable to do so - I get my gratitude from looking at the way my children are growing up and seeing how well they do behave in public.
I understand what you are saying but please do not label us all the same way - I work extremely hard to raise my children and also hold down a job

Answer 7

my husband & I also pay taxes so that covers that one and all the rest is just politness & manners something both my children have been taught but you obviously haven't, next you will be moaning about the old expecting doors held open & seats given on the bus !
There is nothing wrong in being kind to one another whether with or without children, i don't expect you to be kind to me infront of my children but what a good example you would be if you did.

Answer 8

No parents expect special treatment, yet people with poor manners expect the children to have good manners!! you or no one pays taxes to support my children, I work full time as does my wife and we both pay high taxes, not only to support those who cannot work, but the excellent education system we use, health service, police etc We don't expect people to hold doors open for us, but do think it is rude when others barge past, slams doors and pushes other citizens out of the way (old, young, middle aged, parents, disabled etc)

However, I do agree with you when you talk about parents who CHOOSE not to work, yet expect special treatment, parking bays and for the tax payer to pay not only for their children, but their rent, council tax, fags and booze

When you state "parents" you shouldn't stereotype with the same brush!

Answer 9

i can see where you are coming from
children nowadays are spoilt and throw embarassing tanturms
if these are the adults of tomorrow
then its a horror to think what world they will have created

i dont think they will wipe our a@ses when we grow old
they will be selfish because that is how they are being raised

too pampered, when i was a kid and i threw a tanturm at the store once becausei wanted a toy
and all my mum said was ' are you crying? do i see tears in your eyes? no toy for you today'
i learnt that if i throw tanturms i wont get anything from them
i ahve to ask politely or do something to earn it

so i really dont understand why some parents are letting their children get away with it!!!!

Answer 10

i think your question is genuine and honest

i have 3 children and to be honest i dont want special treatment, i couldnt give a damn where people park , my children are very well behaved and strangers coment on this.
i do understand where you are coming from on your taxes but in all honety i work full time and i dont claim any benefits.

im sorry you not happy with the situation