my ex and i broke up about 5 months ago. we were together for almost 3 years. we broke up because we fought over really dumb things. it takes two to fight. we have just recently started to be friends again, he told me he doesn't want to mess around because he is talking to someone online and is in a relationship with her. i know how that is because i have had that before, but at the time i dated others, why sit around waiting to meet this person, when you could be losing a chance with someone better here? yeah, share an online thing, but since you aren't able to meet right away why not date others?
i have changed and realized what i have done wrong in the relationship, and am trying to convince him i've changed, but he doens't believe that. we both made mistakes and are both guilty.
2007-03-09 21:46:37 · 4 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what harm could it do to just see each other more then twice a month and maybe go to dinner and a movie or what not and share a kiss or two, to show him i really have changed? were both young..and have nothing to lose. of course he would have to be up front with her and tell her until i meet you i would like to date someone close to me as well. i don't consider that cheating one bit. honestly, i don't.
how can i explain this to him without sounding like im telling him to stop talking to her completely? i have to deal with that if i want to see him more then i am now. please don't be rude to me about this with your opinions. i still love him and just want to see if dating him could fix things, if not then atleast we tried. he doesn't seem the most interested at the moment because we just recently started talking again. i know once a man makes up his mind, his mind is made, and it's not going to change. that may be true, please help?!
2007-03-09 21:50:01 · update #1
yeah if I was you I would MOVE ON without thinking twice as it would kill me thinking that hes "dating" other woman's BUT I'm NOT you and obviously you're thinking very differently. YOU said that YOU both made mistakes in the relationship ok I got it well then answer me this WHY is it that its ONLY YOU that's trying to get back together? by the sound of it hes NOT trying very much considering hes interest in other woman hmm hes a very busy man having so many romance's all over the place... I would say move on take it easy don't go jumping on somebody else arms right away just do whatever its best for YOU. Don't end up begging him because as far as I can see hes not very interested.
2007-03-09 22:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, i think online relationships are stupid. Especially when its a couple who maybe live so far away they cant see each other on a regular basis. Your ex would be better off meeting someone in the real world instead of a online fantasy.
That being said, you need to realize that when its over its over and its time to move on. If it didnt work out the first time around it probably wont work out this time either. Maybe you need to forget about him as well and fine someone new-make a fresh start.
2007-03-10 06:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. Things will work out. you are young so think of all the possibilities out there for you. There are loads. You may just miss him, but my advice is to keep him as a friend but also keep your options open. Whatever will happen will happen in time and don't worry!
2007-03-10 05:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
billions of guys out there.
you can go with the one you can get in 5 seconds or the one you have to build a relationship with.
up to you. but you should meet up with him asap to know who he is.
2007-03-10 05:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋