bestfriend? or emotional leech?

Question

I've had this online friend, we've been online mates for some time now, but most of the time we chat, and we have an argument which is usually is her fault, and i tell her i dont wanna talk about it, i've explained it to her time and time again but she always tells me that she'll just ignore her feelings just to satisfy me, and she makes me feel guilty everytime, like she's using emotional blackmail against me and i really try to be nice but now, we argue almost every time we chat which is like daily, and i really cant take it anymore, and most of the time, she tells me she's sorry for being hurt and confused and all those things, at first i thought it was something she was going through but its become a routine, she does it so i would ask her and she tells me all these stuff which is ok if its occasionally but not every single day, and there's also a stupidity issue, how do i tell her to stop or how do i get her to stop using emotional blackmail against me

she's told me a lot of stuff since we knew each other, but most of the time i notice that the things she tells me are very similar to what i tell her bout what happened to me the other or the other week, its like she's imitating me in every way and she tells me we're the same, and i when i told her we werent, she said it hurt her when i told her we werent the same, and she always make me feel that i should apologize to her, sometimes she apologizes but when she does, she tells me that she'll apologize just so we make up even if she did nothing wrong, we did have some good conversations before, but now its like all we do is argue, and i feel really bad, its like she's draining me, what should i do? should i get rid of her or wait to see if anything changes? please help me, and thanks for the one's who answered earlier.

Answer 1

Block her.

Answer 2

It's very simple ~ Don't answer her emails right away.
Wait a few days then tell her you're very busy and make the conversations less and less frequent.
It sounds like she's dragging you down and you don't need that.
Besides, she probably has a bunch of other firends online that she's doing the same thing to. You know you're not the only one. People like that bum as many people out as they can.
Don't feel guilty about it. She's not your problem unless you let her be.

Answer 3

Do you have other good conversations with her? Other then the fights do you really enjoy talking with her? If not, then I would drop her like a hot rock. If you really do like her friendship, then try to figure out what is it about your relationship that causes these fights and avoid those topics. In the end you don't need that kind of drama in your life, maybe talk to her less often.

Answer 4

I think u should be frank and speak up.i used to have a friend like yours.she keep saying negative thing bout ppl and when i told her that its wrong,she said shes sorry coz she accidentally said it.wtf!? its so selfish!! i mean she did it again and again ...but in the end i just get rid of her.mayb u should do that.some ppl doesnt care about other ppls feeling..
well,make ur own decision girl.GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

well if you only know each other online, it's easy to get ride of her at your last resort, but i'd say talk about it, be honest that she's using you to feel guilty, etc. and if she doesn't take that well, why deal with her?

Answer 6

block or ignore her.. dont entertain her.. she sounds like she needs attention pretty bad and so u're the one who got the burden.. dont regret not being bothered by her.. its juz online fren.. so it wont affect u.. u'll never noe, she might be lying to u all this while..

Answer 7

Friends should be able to talk about anything to eachother - if you can't deal with her then be honest with her and move on.

Answer 8

tell her how u feel kate. this is a online frien it is not like u see her averyday at work or school.