dont bother yourself. its that "someone"'s choice.
2007-03-09 20:59:40
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answered by La'bruha 2
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What's the question?...
Someone who says no? That was me, for much of my life.
As a baby, no was my first word. Not mama, not dada, but NO. I loved the word. Apparently I marched around the house shaking my head, tossing my little red curls chanting "No no no." My mom says I was very intelligent. I did everything much sooner than my siblings. I was walking at 7 months. Talking quite early. I just seemed very negative for a baby! I suppose I was born a realist/pessimist. I was probably the only angst-ridden member of the Pampers crowd...Tee hee. Or maybe I just got used to hearing my mother say no so much (she's the Queen of Negativity! I was just the Princess...)
No isn't all bad. Some people can't say no & they end up on drugs or pregnant at 16. I was never a follower. I never did things just to fit in or be cool. Sometimes being negative means being cautious and protecting yourself from danger. But yes, constant negativity is destructive. It limits you. It keeps you down. Some things I shouldn't have said no to, like believing in myself, allowing myself to love, trying new things...
I'm learning to say yes, to myself, to life. I'm learning to open up to possibility & think positive. The law of attraction really works. Your thoughts have an energy that radiates out. What you believe & think, you attract. So if you expect the worst, it's what you get. When you hope for the best & dare to go after your dreams, the world is your oyster! I wouldn't have guessed that quantum physics was the answer to happiness!
2007-03-10 06:27:54
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answered by amp 6
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Do you think so ? No , saying NO will not always lead to destruction . If somebody ask somebody to kill you , and if the second somebody says YES imagine what will happen ....
So the effect of saying NO and YES are purely depend on the circumstances.
2007-03-10 06:50:58
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answered by subra 6
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I don't believe that. Saying "no" is often the one thing between you and destruction.
2007-03-10 06:57:35
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answered by Tahini Classic 7
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Keep at it... never know when things would reverse!! The governing principle in this world is oscillation!!
2007-03-10 05:17:57
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answered by small 7
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thats what i say to all the women who reject me at the clubs
2007-03-10 04:58:39
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answered by Anonymous
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that's what I do
2007-03-10 10:05:48
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answered by What U see is what U get 5
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