I dated a girl last year from Saint Paul Minnesota that wanted me to talk dirty to her and spank her with my belt. I felt weird about it, but liked her and was willing to try. I enjoyed it more than I should have, wrong?
2007-03-09 20:48:12 · 8 answers · asked by PatrickS 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, if she enjoyed it and you did too, where's the harm? Female bottoms are generally well padded, so it's unlikely you did her any injury beyond a sore rear end. If you feel like it, go ahead and explore this kink a bit more - you'd be surprised how many women there are who love to have their bottoms spanked. And the sex afterwards is usually terrific.
2007-03-10 00:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worry about the fact that this woman wants that. Does she think she deserves this? If so, I would worry that she is having some serious problems with who she is and what she thinks of herself, and someone like that needs to find herself before getting somebody else into her life. As for your enjoyment, if you have not fantasized about hurting someone before, I would guess it was only pleasurable for you because it seemed, and I stress seemed, to make her happy. The fact that you know that it's wrong to get pleasure from hurting someone is a good indicator that you do not enjoy harming people.
2007-03-10 17:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Emily H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i love to be spanked and i am into bondage, so i do not think it is wrong as long as everyone involved is ok about it!!
2007-03-10 05:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by onecrazymama05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not wrong if u both enjoyed, each to there own i guess. :)
2007-03-09 22:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by flower19602003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as everyone was in agreement, no harm. God bless****
2007-03-09 21:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it just means that your into the same thing that alot of people are into.
2007-03-10 05:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by hot and spicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that makes you a humanist
2007-03-10 01:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope ur just fine
2007-03-13 14:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Evil Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋