i am nearly 12 weeks pregnant (well about 1 - 3 days off it according to my last U/S) and i feel like i need to you know.... yeah...(the mind wants to but the body isnt willing...lol) and well i want to but my body doesnt. does anyone have/had the same problem? any tips to get past it? please help...
2007-03-09 20:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
my partner and i want to but, yeah... and i want to dont get me wrong but my body says different, but i want to...lol
2007-03-09 20:08:29 · update #1
Well, your hormones are all out of whack, and you have to be willing to work with your body ;) It may take a little extra effort on your partners part, some lube, and a little more time. You may want to try extra romance to get in the mood - or whatever interests you... you know - toys, movies, or just some romance and some mooooooooood music!
But you know what - don't force it. In about 2 months - 3 months you body will likely be RAGING and TOTALLY wanting it ;) I know for me - I was rediculously in the mood at about month 6... LOL (Too much detail? Sorry)
For now, go with the flow... you can get a lot out of it without going all the way....
2007-03-09 20:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Willalee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is safe to have sex during pregnancy unless your doctor says otherwise or if you are not comfortable in doing so.
Don't feel bad i stopped having sex at 5 months cause it just didn't feel right to me because my son was breech and when he would kick i would feel it down there so sex just felt awful to me and i didn't have sex again until 2 months after i had my son by c-section.
Good luck
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2007-03-10 04:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's gonna have to make it good. Try flirting and foreplay for a really long time first. Then just go for it, your body will remember why it wants to pretty quickly.
2007-03-10 04:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Huggles-the-wise 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me when I was pregnant, I went ahead and did it and I started crying.. it was uncomfortable, and soo wierd but it does go away .
2007-03-10 04:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by violet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
enjoy. you won't break.
you will have to find new positions as your belly size increases.
2007-03-10 04:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by KitKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO IT!!! I know what you are feeling. It will pass.
2007-03-10 04:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by pinkmaniac86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋