Fr Indian men: Who wud make d least embarrasing choice if some1 has to take care of ur private daily routines?

Question

This question is only for young single guys from India.

the situation is the west is very, very different, so the western's answers will not mean much here.

If you are in a situation (e.g. a fracture) where your very personal and private daily routines like urinating, defecating, changing clothes and underwear, etc. has to be done by another person...... who would make you the most embarrasing choice and who would be the least embarrassing:

1. Your family member like a brother or father
2. Your friend
3. Your male cousin

Also tell me how embarrassed will you feel in the hospital if these acts are conducted by a female nurse.

Also I would like to know, how would you like a girlfriend or a boyfriend (i.e. someone you have a sexual feeling for) to do it? Would it be an absolutely no-no or better.

Would your girl/ boyfriend be jealous if someone else takes such personal care of you?

Answer 1

I'm from kerala, and I can give my views.

First of all, My best friend just broke his right wrist in 3 places. His mom helps him thru the day, Bathing etc.... His Mom said he doesn't like it (I call her often). He called me a few days later and told me, "Man! I took a bath", by himself. As far as one hand fractures are concerned, you can help yourself. Or if you are friendly with your dad, he would be a choice, second to mom.

He is 18, he just went back to college, he helps himself.

My brother had operations a year ago and nurses changed his cloths, he told me it was a bit embarrassing but hey, you are in serious pain here and you should actually be thankful. & Oh ya, the second day, he had male nurses to help him out. But My mom was also with him. (I wasnt there because I had exams. I woulda helped him, to an extent tho. But me & Him are not that brotherly)

If such a thing was to happen to my girl friend, I will definitely care for her, to any extent. But I am not sure how your (or mine) girl friend might respond, if we were the one in bed.

As far as nudity is concerned, yes. I agree, it would be shameful (In our community) - But I don't feel the difference, maybe because I was raised in another country too.

i was actually planning for a career in nursing, but you know how our culture is looking at it. That made my parents say no. & I turned out to be a cyber geek.

One more thing, I was always embarrassed while taking photos of something I see, in public, You would be in awkward positions for the shot but if you dont click, you never get the picture. The reward is worth it.

AM
ps: I just fell down the stairs (I asked the Q few minutes ago) and not a very bad shape, I can imagine how embarrising it would be. Its lucky I didn't break the arm (If I did, My best friend and I would have one more thing in common :)

Answer 2

i think of its the westerners who want medical help. they have been made such wimps via robbing them of their manhood. that's extremely the **** that adult males are compelled to be bare in front of females, even regardless of if that's for medical objective. As this following hyperlink I certainly have provided amply proves, the wimps in the west jointly as they rob adult males of their masculinity, they don't enable adult males to shield females in the comparable spirit of freedom. we could continuously on no account enable such preparation in India.