I was cleaning up some stuff tonight & opened a shoe box to see if it needed throwing away & it had approx. 3-5 different vibrators & the cleaner (which was almost gone) in it. This blew my mind! I don't know what to think. WHY? And I saw a receipt that showed that it was purchased while we have been together...actually, 3 days before Christmas. WHAT do I need to do about this? What do I need to think about it? What do I need to ask? Everyone, please help!
2007-03-09 19:07:54 · 5 answers · asked by Joe N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, I'm going to ask about it...I just don't know what to think right now...it's so odd and very new to me! Any other suggestions??
2007-03-09 20:12:10 · update #1
Thanks, any other input?
2007-03-10 03:55:44 · update #2
girls have their toys and guys have their own.
you could always ask her about them. communication is important in a relationship.
2007-03-09 19:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by KitKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal for a woman to own some vibrators. She was probably embarassed to bring it up with you.
2007-03-13 20:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very normal, but I don't believe I would come out and ask her about it, it's not as though she was cheating on you. What I would do is reccomend that you do some research in ways to please your partner with sexual toys. You could be the one to bring this into the relationship so the both of you can enjoy the experience.
2007-03-10 05:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by pleasuretopleaseyou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's TOTALLY normal.
Don't accuse her over it. Don't be hurt in the SLIGHTEST.
On the other hand, you can use it as a way to open conversation about how to please her more, which is a great subject on its own and can also lead to the even greater subject of how to please YOU more.
2007-03-10 12:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most girls own vibrators why don't you ask her to use it in front of you it might turn you on i did it for my boyfriend
2007-03-11 07:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋