I like this guy in my class... we have a lot of things in common, even common friends... he knows I like him, and his best friend told me that he always talks about me. In spite of that, he acts a bit strange when i'm around. I feel that he wants to tell me something, but he always stops before opening his mouth :( i don't know what to do...should I take the first step? i'm afraid he'll say he doesn't want to be more than friends... help me please :)
2007-03-09 18:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by yoyo_kiss_2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Invite him at your house.
2007-03-09 18:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A: if he is getting toungue tied when he is around u. u got nothin to worry abt. he is head over heals for u.
B: do take the first step. does it really matter who starts it? wether u take it he takes it u booth r goin to be in a relationship. me bieng a guy i know how hard it is ask a girl out. so i suggest u make the first move. he'll kike more if u do.
C: u live only once. take a chance. if he rejects u then its his loss. the chance that this guy is not bieng with u is a stupid excuse to get scred over or get anxious abt.
2007-03-10 03:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by kaustubh j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all have to take risks, including your guy. Would u really be happy with a male who expects u to make all the 'moves?' If you're ok with that, then u know what to do. U could loose your attraction for him if he's too passive.
2007-03-10 02:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a risk tell him you want to hang just you and him then take the first step. ask him out. better to take the risk then not taking any risk and wording what could have happen. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-10 03:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's acting weird cuz he likes you. He's probably so infatuated he doesn't know his phone number when you are around. I say take the first step. Congrats!
2007-03-10 03:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mark in Boulder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he likes you or he knows you like him but apparently he just doesn't want to be more than friends but is afraid to tell you in case it hurts your feelings.
2007-03-10 02:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by The Crazy B!tch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey that is the way the dating game is. He probably is a little shy, just remember guys still like to be the one chasing. They really like a chase... so let him think he caught you!!
2007-03-10 02:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by dynamicDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should take the first step and if he sais know then hes the jerk thats missing out
2007-03-10 02:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by no name! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might as well tell him first. what do you have to lose? it's one of those things that if you don't do now you'll look back on it in the future asking "what if?"
2007-03-10 02:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋