tell me if you think Im addicted to sex?

Question

i lost my virginity to my boyfriend 3 days ago. and the next day we got into an arguement so i couldn't see him. i felt sexually frustrated that i went and had sex with a friend.... I started my "once a month thing" yesterday and still had sex. always with a condom of course. my other question is -
ladies - have you had sex during your period?
guys - ever had sex with a girl during her period?

Answer 1

heya no your not a sex addicte it was your first time 3 days ago and after 'doin it' for the first time your certain to want it more often than other people for a while wen i lost mine my boyfriend and i were doin it 3-5 times a day but beleive me you will calm down eventually but just be careful please i no wat kind of actions involved in it beleive me

Answer 2

Yes on having sex (penetration) while a girlfriend was having her "period". Not the best way to "keeping it clean" but quite arousing and enjoyable.
How do you know it you are sexually addicted? Well, since you stated you lost your virginity three days, ago, and not knowing how old you are or your boyfriend, you may be addicted to the idea of having the pleasure of the actual penetration into your vagina with no emotional attachment to the person you are having sex with. I have seen that many times over the years where a friend just wanted to be close and ending up in bed but both of us knowing it was no emotional attachment. Sorry to say that many of these women have had multiple partners and are never satisfied. The stupidity of being young and and wanting just the physical sex instead of the emotional connection hurts us all. Yet, today's society states, "Just do It", "Go for It", "If it feels good.." and so on. And how can you be "sexually frustrated" when you just had your first experience? If now you feel that after three days you "need to have sex again, and again and again", then you are having what all of us have experienced on that first time.......blissful enjoyment of sexual release! Now it that addiction or what?

Answer 3

Hi J Bear,

I doubt you are addicted to sex, but, as you have now sampled (and enjoyed) the joys of love-making you are aware how much it can make demands on you.

You ask ladies if they have, like you, enjoyed sex while on their period, I'm no lady, but I can confirm that the answer to that is yes. As a man I can answer that as 'yes', too.

I would advise that you take especial care while 'having sex' Using a condom is, obviously, a good idea, as you say. However there are other possible problems arising from indiscriminate sex. Reputation-the possibility of being considered 'easy', which could affect your chance of a satisfactory later relationship and so on.

But, whatever happens, enjoy your life and keep safe,

BobSpain

Answer 4

Just because you had a fight with your boyfriend does not mean you can just go have sex with someone else. Yes you will become addicted to sex and it will end up getting careless. Even though you used a condom you can still contract STD's. Your "friend" is no friend if he is going to have sex with you knowing that your seeing someone else. I did infact have sex on my period but it isn't as fun. Just remember, your are very fertile right before, during and right after your period and you can get pregnant very easily. Please be careful and try to be honest with your boyfriend. If you cared about him, sex with someone else wouldn't even enter your mind.

Answer 5

You're acting impulsively, and no I haven't had sex with someone during their period. Impulsive behaviour is not the same as decisive or free will. Is it an addiction? No you're just being silly. Perhaps stupid.

BTW , I've slept with over 30 gals.

Answer 6

Well.... is something new, i think i wanted to have so much sex when i had my "first time" because it was good !!! But well... you should take care of yourself,.... a friend.... that is not going to be ur friend anymore, without having sex.

I had sex one time when i was in "my days" , the last one, it was ok, but i didnt enjoy it thinking that something could happen or make a mess. So i havent do it again.
My days are my days just for myself.
Good Luck...

Answer 7

Listen, you have no idea how it is being a sex addict. I love sex during my period.

Answer 8

well yes i have because guys like a lil ketchup on their dog lol but the bible says that a man shouldnt touch a women/girl while on her period and yes you are a sex addict

Answer 9

That is perfectly ok, in my opinion, I have done it.. In fact, sex during your period can help with cramps..

Answer 10

well do you feel any better than you started? probably not! i have tried sex on my period, but i didnt like it. thats pretty crappy since thats the time im horniest!