but when it comes down to shairingi these feelings you have bottled up inside to that person you don't let thm out? why can'y i tell her........... i really want to inside,,,,,,,,,,,,
2007-03-09 18:36:37 · 9 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think it may be due to a fear of rejection. You probably have this super awesome thought of how things would be if you are together. You may be nervous because if she does not feel the same way the fantasy will come crashing down on you.
Even if you are scared, tell her about your feelings. That is if you are positive that she is attracted to women as well. IF you are not sure, find out, keep yourself safe. If so, tell her. It is better to find out now and be happy when she accepts. Also if she says no, you can move on and find the true love you are meant to find.
Wishing you luck.
2007-03-09 18:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A crush resulted when you unconsciously reacted chemically
by hormones based on sight, sound, smell or style of another,
which complement your need. Sometimes it is like a craving.
When you satisfy this craving the crush will taper. Sometimes
it takes a lot of emotions and times before the crush disappears. During the moments of crush you could be a slave
to that object. Take care, some crush never end until you do.
2007-03-10 03:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by wcsj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am having the same feelings like you. There is this guy, which I really fell in love with, that I wanted to tell him. There has been times that I wanted to tell him on how I feel for him, but I chicken out. It's been 10 years since I last saw him. I am still wondering if I will ever get to see him again. This time, I am now going to be upfront with the guy and spill the beans. I'm just having this thrill, on what his reaction is going to be.
2007-03-10 02:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Aldo 78522 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just not be the right time shorty
you may just need to think about it and see if you're really ready. your mind maybe saying yes but your heart knows better
Not saying she's not the one just saying you may not be altogether ready to let her know
2007-03-10 05:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Hollow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are afraid of losing her friendship. At some point you have to tell her or you will be frustrated by never knowing where you stand.
2007-03-10 09:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are afraid of her not having the same feeling as you do
2007-03-10 03:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
errm..I'm sure hoping you're not a lesbian or anything....That's probably why you're afraid.
2007-03-10 02:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by The Crazy B!tch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r U a LeSbIaN?
2007-03-10 02:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you're a lesbian?
2007-03-10 02:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by rocuronium77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋