2007-03-09 18:11:05 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's a stupid thing.
2007-03-09 18:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by barb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the person cheating on you didn't learn the first time. You need to absolutely 100% dump that person and move on. Faithfulness means nothing to them and you deserve better. It's better to be alone than to have a cheater as your lover. The trust has been broken in your relationship and it's just not worth it. Move on and go enjoy doing new things and living your life without a cheater. In time, you'll get self-esteem and never allow someone like that back in your life. You know how the saying goes, once a cheater always a cheater, but this cheater did it 5 times, now it's shame on you for tolerating it.
2007-03-09 18:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just too easy for people to say, "Yes, it's a terrible thing. Kick him to the curb."
If you've been in that particular situation, and are really in love with that person, you rationalize that you'd rather have them in your life in an imperfect way, than to cut them out of your life all together.
Your mind knows it's the right thing to do, but your heart won't let you end it.
This is called "settling." Even though it's viewed as wrong, there are PLENTY of us who settle, hoping this person will change, and that it was the LAST time.
Though, It probably won't be.
We are just trying to avoid the full-on heartbreak of letting go.
There is no perfect answer. It's up to you.
2007-03-09 18:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Retroboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely
2007-03-10 01:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's a bad thing. Once a cheater, always a cheater, in my opinion.
By taking them back, you're showing them firstly that you're letting them screw around behind your back. You're also showing them that you'll take them back no matter what they do.
Most importantly, by taking them back so many times you're showing that you have low self-worth. You need to look at yourself and ask, "Why do I keep taking back this idiot who is treating me like dirt?" Is it because you don't think you'll find anyone else? Is it because you enjoy being treated like crap? Is it because you are too lazy to try existing without that cheater?
I think you should dump their cheating *** and set yourself free. You are worth so much more than that. I promise you.
2007-03-09 19:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. You are nobody's doormat. If you are really serious about this person do this: Give him an ultimatum. Ask him what he really wants, you or someone else. As long as you continue to take him back, he has no reason to stop doing what he's doing. He knows he can always come back to you. But once he sees that door closing, he needs to reconsider his priorities. Don't disrespect yourself for anyone.
2007-03-09 18:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
certainly, devil TEMPTS human beings into doing undesirable/incorrect issues. he often is the guy who would be punished for eternity. Hell replaced into made for him and those angels who accompanied him whilst he became against God. in case you have 'heard as plenty approximately devil as..approximately God" then you definately does not be asking such an incorrect question. devil does not punish human beings. people who've refused Christ as Savior would be growing to be to be a member of him and his minions in everlasting separation from God....alongside with what ever different punishment which will meted out. be responsive to what the Bible says and you will not seem stupid next time.
2016-10-18 00:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, this is usually not good. You are giving into him, and he is talking it because you aren't feeling secure. You need to show him that you can live with out him. Look at your reasoning for taking him back so many times, try and figure out if it is worth it.
2007-03-09 19:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by smiling.hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely --- why do you have so little self esteem that you put up with such unacceptable behavior? Once a cheater always a cheater -- stand up for yourself and dump him. He doesn't respect you. You deserve someone who will. Good luck.
2007-03-09 18:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to think abut why you are taking them back and if it for the right reasons and if they aren't delivering on a promise they have made
2007-03-09 18:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i say is once a cheater always a cheater get rid of him if you carry on one day he might just forget to use a condom with one of the girls he's slept with and might get an std and give it to you so fck him off he's a nob head
2007-03-10 23:14:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋