I have a friend who is super clingy and annoying. lately, she's been signing up for everything that i do whether it's sports, classes, etc. just today she called my house and cell phone 5 times. when i finally answered the phone. she asked me if i wanted to hang out and i was baking so i said maybe later before i go snow tubing with some other friends at 6:00 . my baking cookies turned out to be a disaster and took way longer then i wanted and when i finshed, it was about 5:00. so, i didnt call her because i had to get ready. so, later im on aim and i tell her that im sorry i didnt call her, that my cookies were disasterous and took way to long. and this is what she says "Yeah, im suprised you didn't invite me to come over or invite me to go tubing." i told her that she was being rude and she got really mad. do you think its rude? and, how do i let her know she can be to clingy without having her explode like she always does? thanks.
2007-03-09 18:05:40 · 4 answers · asked by [-♥-] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her that she is being to clingy and it's kind of buggy you.
If you want to stay friends with her then tell her that you want to be friends still. yes what she said was very rude. She should be glad you said you where sorry. beats not doing it at all.
2007-03-09 18:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you were an invited guest when you went tubing and that you weren't told you could also bring a friend, so you didn't take anyone with you. She doesn't sound like she realizes she is being rude. Not all people are taught the same manners. I think it was presumptuous of her. She thinks she really matters to you. And she sure matters to herself! You should tell her it was a bit presumptuous of her to expect you to go just because you were going. Let her know in a nice way that some people would find that quite rude and then say no more about it. If a situation like that ever comes up again, then you can remind her she is doing it again. Sooner or later, she should get it in her head she is doing something wrong and make the needed changes. If not, then you may want to get more direct with what you say and just tell her she annoys you with being that way so much. Ask her why she keeps on and on after you have been careful to point it out to her so nicely. If she's doing it to be manipulative, you'll know soon enough. But for now, It would be nice of you to give her the benefit of a doubt. She really may be clueless to it all.
2007-03-10 02:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"hey i really like you, an we are great friens but I think that not always doing everything together could expan our circle of friends. I wasn't trying to be rude the other night...its just that things came up, an it wasn't my plac3e to invite you"
something like that should work
2007-03-10 02:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thiz gurl dos dat 2 me 2 n she calls ma cell n i neva anser n sometimes she calls restricted so i anser n i act like im takin den i put ma fone on mute act like i hang up or hang up she likes 1 of ma guy friends n he hates her n on da fone we always tak bout her n no it wasnt rude trust me howd she even no
2007-03-10 03:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Joseph Adam Jonas!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋