i feel lonely?

Question

i dont know why i feel lonely but ever scene i broke up with my girlfriend which year ago i dont want date any one i keep it ignoring all the girls that were interinsted in me and i reject al of them i duno why but my ex girlfriend moved on with her life and i'm still stuck. i duno why but i feel like i'm so lonely even that i have alot of friends and girls that interstrted in me i still feel like i need move to different state or country like from US to canada that way i can constrate on my college cuz i tired of been sad all the time and having fake mask around my friends the happy face when i'm not happy. i think i need new environment and start agian that why i think i should move

i mean i'm 19yo and i all ways depressed and i always have the fake smile around my friends i really tired of this place i need to move to diffrent country maybe i will find the love that i'm looking for.
i duno wat should i do

Answer 1

I'm sorry you're hurting !!! I think you answered your own question. You're just looking for re-enforcement. You know , someone to agree with you from the outside looking in ! So here I am. You sound really sweet. Most guys wouldn't even admit they were still hung up on a girl , let alone try to fix it.You got the right idea Move on. You don't actually have to move, just let yourself be moved.Soon,you'll meet someone who deserves ALL the love you have to give !And probably without trying.Don't be afraid to let your sensitive side show , and I don't just mean on the computer.Trust me , they will notice!Every woman wonders if there are still good men out there,show them that there is ! Good Luck !!

Answer 2

Moving away isn't the answer to all your problems, if you think you are lonely and depressed now, imagine how lonely you'll be once you move to a new city where you have no family, no friends, no contacts, nothing, and on top of that your surroundings are foreign.

For someone who sounds as depressed as you do, you should get passed your frustrations with your friends and family and try to reach out and tell them how you feel. You need people now more then ever. If no one responds you can always get help from a counselor or a therapist. I hope you do. There's no reason why you can't be happy.

Answer 3

Moving or running from your problems won't make them go away. You need to deal with what is going on with your life and and work through it - then if you feel you still want a fresh start then go for it. Sounds like you could use someone to talk to - maybe a therapist or counselor, or even a good friend who will listen. You have to work through your feelings for your ex, and realize that you have to move on with your life.
If you are depressed and have been for a while, you may be clinically depressed and for that you should see a doctor. Being depressed can keep you in a rut and cause you not to think so clearly.

Answer 4

i know that when u read this you will like be whatever but you should talk to your doctor about depression because it is medically caused by a chemical inbalance in the brain and it can happen to anyone an in fact to MANY people. i know like 5 people who are medically depressed and are happy now because the chemical inbalance was treated. this may not have anything to do with ur x, nothing at all. and really dont ignore this but see a doctor NOT a psychologist and really talk to it and tell it what you r feeling. medical depression can get serious so dont put it off... good luck!

Answer 5

don't be so depressed you engege your self in doing somthing do not remain free all the time do some thing you can feel that you get a lot of pleasure. try to be happy because people withyou when you smile but no one with you when cry or weep. depressed and look sad.

Answer 6

Dear fren ..jas coz ur gurl left u out doesn't mean u have to stop breathing .jas calm down forget abt her the moments you had cherished with her ..the important thing is be positive .always remember frens are the way !!!! ...so taking this in consideration i would suggest you to move on coz u know life still goes on and i know u ll do fine !

Answer 7

You need help for your depression. Try speaking to a counselor and go from there. Sounds like your depression is due to more than just your breakup. Good luck.

Answer 8

focus on what makes you happy.
what is it that your ex has that made you feel complete?
discover what makes you complete. You will be surprised to find that she isnt who really completes you. You are young too so lighten up. Life is just begining for you my friend. :)
keep up the good work on not getting into a "rebound" relationship.

Answer 9

C'mmon yaar you are just 19 and already so depressed and that too for losing a girl friend. Gather yourself and believe in yourself, and try and make somthing out of your life. first create a position for yourself in Society, be successful and girls will automatically follow you. Remember -
NEVER CRY FOR ANY RELATION IN LIFE
BECAUSE FOR THE ONE WHOM YOU CRY
DOES NOT DESERVE YOUR TEARS
AND THE ONE WHO DESERVES
WILL NEVER LET YOU CRY..........
NEVER SEARCH YOUR HAPPINESS
IN OTHERS WHICH WILL MAKE YOU
FEEL ALONE,
RATHER SEARCH IT IN YOURSELF
YOU WILL FEEL HAPPY
EVEN IF YOU ARE LEFT ALONE.........

Answer 10

be ur self....
u cant keep urself on that condition forever.....
get out from ur past.....
u cant step ahead if u act like that.....
get off ur mask....

good luck