ok for some reason i'm so afraid of having sex, and i dont really have a reason for this....
2007-03-09 17:30:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I think alot of people are afraid and I think it can be chalked up mostly to a fear of something new and unfamiliar.
I think its a good thing that you are being straightforward with yourself about it. I don't know how old you are but it isn't beyond the realm of possibility that you are afraid of it because you aren't really ready for it (even if you think you are). Its a psychology thing....your brain is trying to tell you something and you should listen to it....many women don't and regret it.
Good Luck.
2007-03-09 18:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I was afraid of it too when I was younger, mainly because of what you hear about the bleeding and pain. It caused quite a bit of curiosity, enough to the point where I actually started "inserting things" by myself just to make sure I was ready for it and that it wasn't going to be some kind of terrible excruciating pain, which thankfully it wasn't.
2007-03-09 18:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. It is a major event in life. I dare say the average male is scared too. They would never admit but trust me, they would. I assume you are just about to or recently began this activity. So many horror stories are told and many begin to believe it.
2007-03-09 18:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is scared their first time..some just dont want to admit it...I promise that once you do have sex a few times you wont be scared at all
2007-03-09 18:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is perfectly normal to be afraid of sex especially if u are a virgin
2007-03-09 18:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is perfectly ok... i am the same way... and in a way it is a good thing and even better that u noticed it and now just understand it...make sure that u dont do anything that u will regret...congrats u r perfectly fine!!!!!
2007-03-09 17:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by bush sucks nutz! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely in case you harm your self then ofcourse its regular. once I spun out in my motor vehicle drivin i replaced into scared drivin interior the rain for months yet like everyother worry, with time all of it is going away. in simple terms sluggish into it till finally you get that self belief lower back cus u cant get by existence without intercourse my buddy
2016-11-23 18:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would help to figure out what exactly about it you're afraid of... physical pain? or pregnancy, stds etc? anxiety about how you'll act around your partner?
2007-03-09 18:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Brian W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women are like that. its not a bad thing. it just means you are modest. you are giving up a vulnerable part of yourself.
2007-03-09 17:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by wcarolinew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2007-03-09 18:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by T.Wang! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋