2007-03-09 17:22:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First,I am sorry that this happened to your friend. Second, there are a few things that you should help her to do. The first and most important is to keep her safe, and feeling that she is not to blame, second, take her clothes from the event and put them in a bag, suggest that she go to the hospital, she can get an exam there, they will contact the police, they will give her the morning after pill if he did not use protection. After this is done, the hospital will give her victims assistance. Encourage her to do that, if she is scared, and you are up to it,, go with her. Another very important thing is to just be a friend. and again, ensure that she is safe, and if she stays with you please make sure that you are safe too. If he raped his own girlfriend then there is nothing to say that he wont hurt someone else. Good luck and godbless
2007-03-09 17:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by catelynn62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing a victim should do when they got rape is NOT TAKE A SHOWER at all. That way when you tell the police the evidence is still in her. Second, call her parents or anybody that's older that takes care of her. Then call the police and have them ask questions about what happen. Try to tell your friend that she's gonna be okay now and she's in good hand. Make her feel safe.
Im sorry for what happened to her.
2007-03-10 01:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing a victim should do when they got rape is NOT TAKE A SHOWER at all. That way when you tell the police the evidence is still in her. Second, call her parents or anybody that's older that takes care of her. Then call the police and have them ask questions about what happen. Try to tell your friend that she's gonna be okay now and she's in good hand. Make her feel safe.
Im sorry for what happened to her.
2007-03-10 01:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to go to the police and the hospital so she can prove that he raped her. If he did it once, he will do it again. If she said no, she meant no and do not let him get away with this.
2007-03-10 01:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dyan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to go to the hospital and have a rape kit done.. get it documented.. and file a report.
If he does it once.. he'll do it again and.. that's NOT love.. she has no reason to stay with him.
2007-03-10 01:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by sweetbrneyedgrl7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her to the hospital and they will examine her and contact the police and start peer counseling with her. they will be able to determine the fact it was rape through the examination and they will have his dna.
2007-03-10 01:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let someone know what happen, her parents so
that tthey can get the police invovled. then she can get the
help the she need.. also be there for her as a good friend.
that the best thing for her is your friendship. good luck to
her.
2007-03-10 01:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report to the police and beaware from that guy. thx that u was not there
2007-03-10 02:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Capri 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Support her. Don't tell her what to do. Tell her your thoughts on the situation (i.e., if you think it's best that she break up with him, you can tell her that....but don't say, "You better break up with him!!" Say, "I think that it would be best if you break up with him.")
2007-03-10 01:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be thankful it wasnt you? why do you keep asking this?
2007-03-10 01:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋