Who Has the Problem????
The problem is he doesn't think he has a problem. but he will go up to a random man and ask him if he knew he has a bald spot? or went up to my mother one day at her house and said hello! you have bird **** on your car!............he says things like this out of nowhere to the most innappropriate people at the most inapropriate times and then thinks its funny...... He told me that he was willing to work out anything and that i should tell him if there was ever a problem so he would fix it but then we were talking on IM and our convo ended up
telling me that I was the one with the problem because I always try to encourage him all the time to be the best he can be........... and that if people get offended with his immaturity or lack of censorship then they have the problem and accussed me of calling him retarded........ when i never would say something like that about him. I think he's very smart in like physicas and math........please help
2007-03-09 17:14:25 · 7 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Maybe the reason he put the Retarded-word in your mouth was because after hearing what stupid things he says he realized that he sounds that way. Although he may have some book smarts, he needs to work on his social skills. One day he will own a car too and I am sure there will be bird droppings on it, and possibly he will have his own bald head to contend with. He needs to grow up!
2007-03-09 17:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by djk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has turrets syndrome of sorts! Or more like Aspergers syndrome; unable to with hold his thoughts, feels compelled to announce his mental gymnastics as he makes associations about people. Just the way he is! If he is over the top for you, disengage now before you are enemy's.
Children with Asperger's typically develop a good to excellent vocabulary, although they usually lack the social instincts and practical skills needed when relating to others. They may not recognize verbal and nonverbal cues or understand social norms, such as taking turns talking or grasping the concept of personal space. They may have difficulties with accent, tone, and pitch, making their speech sometimes odd or difficult to understand. They may have difficulty expressing their own feelings and perceiving others' feelings. Children with Asperger's typically make efforts to establish friendships, but they may have difficulty making friends because of their social awkwardness.
2007-03-10 01:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...well, it's HIS problem if his words are causing people to be offended by HIM. He'll probably learn with time that sometimes one needs to shut his mouth about sensitive things like this. Why don't you try and convince him that he's hurting and/or offending these other people, and ask him if he wants to be someone who hurts others by such a trivial, unimportant thing...
2007-03-10 01:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and everyone around him are becoming victims of his "thoughtlessness". He sounds like a very selfish and insecure person. Unless he wants to change for himself he never ever will.
Now you must run don't walk!
2007-03-10 01:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by BlondieCAMN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
apperantly this guy is an innapropriate idiot, dont waste any more time hes only gonna get more annoying as time goes by believe me, some people just dont know how to act, hes one of them,
2007-03-10 01:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's goofing on everyone because he thinks he is superior. Everything is his private joke. Kick his *** to the curb!
2007-03-10 01:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by nostromobb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE is a pain !
HE needs attention!
HE also needs to grow-up!
If you are NOT married to him................run!
HE needs to be alone, and you move on.HE has worked you
out...and will not stop...Its all attention seeking....
Yes......it is.!
2007-03-10 01:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋